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Stuck in the middle... Please help me!

Ok so I have quite a few friends, but 2 very special ones. The only problem is that they dont like eachother and r very competitive. Over me I mean. Everyday they bribe me with stuff so I can like one them the most and they tug my arms so hard I could be ripped in half! I like them equally, I really do. I tried to explain this to them but they just acted as if they never heard me! They'll do ANYTHING to make me like one of them the most. Eventually, i got really sick of them and completely broke up with both of them in such a dramatic way. Now they r really sorry to me and have even tried to get along for my forgiveness! (Im just still not sure if they r REALLY বন্ধু yet tho)... half of me wants to forgive them, half of me doesn't. So... All i wanna know is.. Should I forgive and forget অথবা just leave them for good?
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gossipgirlstar2 said:
I think that first of all আপনি must learn if they are really বন্ধু so as not to do this again to you...If আপনি see that they are pretending and they are doing this only for আপনি to forgive them and then start all over I think that আপনি should leave them for good because আপনি can't change two people tha dislike each other...But if they are really বন্ধু and care about you, আপনি should forgive them... I think that it wouldn't be right if they
were pretending that they are বন্ধু just to bring আপনি back and then start arguing again...

I hope I helped...

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well thank u ill see what happens on monday :)
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JustLikeSoul said:
I think আপনি should wait for a time likehalf মাস ,maybe it is too long,leave them alone and see their behaviors without আপনি and make your decision after that :)
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jedigal1990 said:
i personally think আপনি should forgive them but let them know that what they did before is not going to be tolerated আপনি can't make them be বন্ধু and if their not thats still ok as long as they understand that they must respect that আপনি like both of them equally and fighting with each other will not help any and will cause আপনি not to want to be their friend but really it comes down to how much your friendship means to you. So forgive them but set limits to prevent yourself from the harm of the two of them fighting for আপনি because it is not fair for them to make আপনি chose between the two hope this helps and wish আপনি the best of luck
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sounds good
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joebro521 said:
Well, what i think আপনি should do is make sure that they are বন্ধু দ্বারা talking to them and making sure. So if they don't work it out then mabey আপনি should just tell them that your not going to deal with it and just walk out and let them work it out before u get in the middle.
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babyjay said:
i think আপনি should sit them down and tell them that if they where both true বন্ধু that they would have never made আপনি choose and that if it happens again it will hurt you. i dont think আপনি should leave them because true বন্ধু are really worth some thing special. hold on to them but explain how আপনি feel to them. if আপনি need আরো help let me know.
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