My parents don't trust me.

For years, it's worked. They don't get in my stuff, and I don't get in theirs, and nothing goes wrong. However, lately, my mother has been rooting through my computer and cell phone relentlessly. She is convinced I am a lesbian because I have pictures of Nina Dobrev, Leighton Meester and Candice Accola saved on my computer, and it's because those are my পছন্দ actresses. She completely ignored the fact that there are twice as many of Joseph মরগান and Ian Somerhalder. And, I'm not sure if she made a mistake অথবা if she's framing me, but my mother searched up porn and is blaming for it, accusing me of watching porn. I've never watched porn in my life. Yet, she tells me that I somehow deleted it, when I haven't been on that site in two weeks. She put ridiculous parental controls on my computer, and she's convinced that Tumblr and DeviantART are the root of all evil because my aunt is a psychologist, has never been on the websites, and thinks she knows everything there is to know about them because she talked to a religious zealot who is obsessed with keeping her daughter pure and holy and thinks that gray websites are demonic and that Tumblr's 'fancy animated pictures' are trying to lure আপনি into Satanism. I don't get it. It's not as much that I mind the parental controls that I mind that they don't trust me. It's demeaning. And I have been failing in school because I feel like I need to savor the little time I have on the computer, therefore I have no time for homework. I got my grades back up now, but no matter how much I tell her, she doesn't believe that I'm doing good. I'm not a bad kid, either. I never, ever go out. I don't sleep around অথবা imply any slutty behavior, I don't cuss, drink, smoke অথবা do drugs. I don't understand why me of all people, the good kid, is being treated this way দ্বারা their parents when everybody else who is far আরো trouble than I am has free reign. I want an apology for accusing me, and additionally, I want the parental controls removed - an
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Invincible321 said:
আপনি need to talk to your parents right now about this. That's really wrong. Do not yell অথবা scream অথবা walk away. Ask your mom why she's doing this, tell her how আপনি feel and ask for a heartfelt apology. But stay calm to প্রদর্শনী that আপনি can handle yourself. If they still don't listen, talk to a counsellor অথবা other family member about it because there's something definetely wrong.
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