Some relationship উপদেশ please

Okay so I met this boy at school a মাস and a half ago, and we sort of clicked. We have the same taste in EVERYTHING. We started talking over ফেসবুক and texts, and we started meeting up at recess, between classes, at his place অথবা mine, we really have fun together. We disagree sometimes, we argue, but it's nice having a smart conversation with him. One time I apologized for something I had ব্যক্ত and he replied that I owed him a kiss, which sort of freaked me out.
I swore to myself I wouldn't fall in প্রণয় this year, but I can feel myself falling deeper and deeper into him.
Two days পূর্বে I was at his place with a friend of mine, and we were really tired so we decided to nap. In bed, he played with my hair, held me while I slept, he was so sweet with me. We did বালিশ fights and stuff, we played on the xbox, and he really seemed to like me. Even my friend ব্যক্ত so.
I still haven't প্রদত্ত him the চুম্বন I owe him.
At new year's he's coming over, and since my sister's been bitching around about how I wished he was my boyfriend, he ব্যক্ত that we could prove to her that nothing was going on between us.
And that sort of hurt me.
I thought we had some sort of connection. Ok, he's four years older than I am, but he didn't seem to mind. Am I just another one of the girls he's playing around with?