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so before i say anything, im open minded and all that, i don't care what race, sex, religion অথবা sexual orientation আপনি are as long as your entertaining your a friend to me.

so, yesterday at the bus stop me and my friend (lets say his name is j) were just chatting about the normal stuff, when out of no where he shouts a LOT of curses (he is British so idk half of what he was saying) and looked at me and like whispered in my ear that he was actually gay and he wanted to তারিখ me. i told him i was flattered but i don't think it would work out, he is Still trying to text me, call me and even stood at my doorstep this morning, i do not know what else to say to him to make him understand. help?
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DramaQueen1020 said:
শ্রদ্ধার্ঘ্য for being nice about it and not making fun of him. I know loads of people might do that.

Now to the point. Are আপনি gay as well? If you're just straight, tell him. Just stand in front of him, look him in the eye and say you're sorry, but আপনি just don't roll that way. If you're not straight, but just don't want to তারিখ him, tell him that আপনি just don't think it'll work out অথবা that you're not looking for a boyfriend. Be honest to him. He may just accept it and carry on. But if he gets angry and threatens you, tell an adult.

If he keeps going on after a couple days, texting আপনি and going to your doorstep, tell him to leave আপনি alone, that আপনি feel harassed. Hopefully it'll work out. Good luck!
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StarWarrior said:
Just explain that you're not attracted to him, and don't sugar-coat it, just be honest.
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