Why do I want to be a teen mom so badly?

About twenty মিনিট ago, I went to Walmart with my mother. And I saw this teenager with the cutest little toddler. (She must be a teen mom since she had no one else with her.) I started thinking, I really want to be a teen mom.

I know it's better off being a mom when you're like at least twenty-five, but... I don't know exactly. Why am I beating myself up about it?
 Why do I want to be a teen mom so badly?
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BabyBlud said:
It's natural আপনি should want to have children as i can tell you're very maternal, but i must warn you, being a young mother is not a good thing. I was a young mother and আপনি can not imagine the stress, the loneliness, the utter despair that comes from being so young and having someone dependent on you.
Granted i had my family and my partner who has been with me since the beginning, but even though i had all the support and financial stability and a প্রথমপাতা of my own, it was still very very stressful. If i had my time again, no word of a lie, i would have had an abortion and got on with my life. Please, please wait. Having children is a wonderful experience, but please, don't be stupid and throw your life away like i did. True i think my life is perfect, after all i have a beautiful 4yr old boy, but when i think about it, i would rather have gone out with my বন্ধু every night drinking, been able to afford a car, be sociable instead of being locked up in the house looking after a screaming baby and feeling utterly worthless as i had no idea what i was doing.

আপনি may want to be a teen mother as it's a জনপ্রিয় thing to be nowadays, and tv shows can often glorify that, but i'm telling you, even if আপনি do get on tv, it's not all as glamorous as they make out. Speak with your mother, she'll tell আপনি how hard raising a child can be.

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limited9906 said:
Yeah it's kinda natural about most teens with partners অথবা no partners should really want children to be with them it's natural that আপনি want that too but sometimes being a teen mom isn't a good thing if u don't have a partner where are আপনি gonna get all the money for your kids? It makes আপনি struggle allot..so it's better if u don't be a teen mom besides the only way to get children is when u have sex it's kind of gross but আপনি should be at Least...24-25 if ur younger its better if u don't. being a teen mom is hard..all the hard work will make আপনি tired..it takes responsibility a job and a partner so best wait till u have a partner first and when ur out of school ok? Also to prov what I'm saying is right watch the video below girl struggling because of her kids with no partner 14 kids 0_0 also having children in a young age is not good u maybe aren't ready for it.if u try it maybe risk something u don't know wht it's risking but maybe it will risk something just make sure ur prepared for it.if u are than that's ok if u wanna try it but if ur not prepared for it..it's best that u wait for and older age
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