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My dad....

My dad passed away in April. Ever since then I have trouble at school, being less happier, being আরো lack of confidence and self esteem. He was the person who kept me going. He made me happy, took me out and made me meals. Mum is not supportive. I just really want to die so I can be with him. I really need support. And What should I do?
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BabyBlud said:
It's absolutely normal that আপনি should feel this way, you've হারিয়ে গেছে someone আপনি are very very close to, but আপনি shouldn't want to die just to be with him. I'm sure your dad would agree with me here.

আপনি could try talking to your mum, অথবা even লেখা her a letter and explaining how আপনি feel, see if that pushes through to her of how desperate আপনি need help. Remember to be honest and mature.
আপনি could try talking to your school councellor, অথবা even your own doctor who can recommend আপনি to someone.
Your teachers, your friends, they are all there to listen and help আপনি in times of need, but don't worry, this feeling will go away soon. It may take years, but the grief আপনি feel now will slowly heal. You'll never forget your dad, but i'm sure if he were here, he'd want আপনি to be happy again and to continue with your life.

Talk to someone. Anyone. And let them help you.
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FLUFFYMUFFIN said:
আপনি know...i havnt had this problem.But I can tell আপনি that i know its hard.The first thing i want u to do is NOT to become sinful and god hateing.one of my বন্ধু used to be a good godly 13yearold buddy but his dad died 1 বছর পূর্বে and in that one বছর NO ONE! liked him i even had some troble being friendly. but i had to stick with him otherwise hed be all alone in a big hard world. I stayed with him and i still am cuz he is hurt দ্বারা not only the loss of his dad but ALSO all the other kids at the church i go to. the would say rude things about him over his back.so anyway enof with the blabla. ok lisin...when i get bullied অথবা picked on অথবা anything I tell myself to NEVER GIVE IN and to PUSH YOUR AWAY AND FIGHT TILL THE BATTLE IS DONE!! cuz if আপনি do আপনি will NEVER be dafeded and make God AND your awsome DAD very proud!!!
So dont আপনি EVER think of giving up on life cuz I know that power comes from the rare people who live there dreams and WITH PASSION! so I hope I helped and know how it feels to be hurd. But dont let the pain rule you! CUZ PAIN IS WEAKNESS LEAVING THE BODY AND SOUL! so dont forget to NEVER GIVE IN!! >.<
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আপনি know...i havnt had this problem.But I can tell আপনি that i know its hard.The first thing i want u to do is NOT to become sinful and god hateing.one of my বন্ধু used to be a good godly 13yearold buddy but his dad died 1 বছর পূর্বে and in that one বছর NO ONE! liked him i even had some troble being friendly. but i had to stick with him otherwise hed be all alone in a big hard world. I stayed with him and i still am cuz he is hurt দ্বারা not only the loss of his dad but ALSO all the other kids at the church i go to. the would say rude things about him over his back.so anyway enof with the blabla. ok lisin...when i get bullied অথবা picked on অথবা anything I tell myself to NEVER GIVE IN and to PUSH YOUR AWAY AND FIGHT TILL THE BATTLE IS DONE!! cuz if আপনি do আপনি will NEVER be dafeded and make God AND your awsome DAD very proud!!! So dont আপনি EVER think of giving up on life cuz I know that power comes from the rare people who live there dreams and WITH PASSION! so I hope I helped and know how it feels to be hurd. But dont let the pain rule you! CUZ PAIN IS WEAKNESS LEAVING THE BODY AND SOUL! so dont forget to NEVER GIVE IN!! >.<
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