I'm not too confident in myself...

The reason I say this is because I feel I'm not a good enough person. I feel like I'm an awful person to everyone. People say I'm nice, but I don't feel nice enough, ya know. I feel like people rather be with anyone but me. I feel boring. I feel I'm too quiet unless I'm with my parents অথবা my aunt. I feel my laugh is too weird, and that's why I try not to joke around because eventually, I do laugh and it ends up sounding... creepy. Hardly anyone even tries to speak to me except my friend back at school. He's the only one I can actually talk to about anything, but... I don't know. I just want to be a better person. I want আরো people to like me and actually want to talk to me...

...How do I create a better me? I'll give শ্রদ্ধার্ঘ্য to the ones who answer. :)

Thanks if আপনি answer. I'll appreciate it a lot. <3
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MineTurtle5 said:
I know it's easier ব্যক্ত than done, but just be yourself. And don't worry about what other people think of you. Just overlook your flaws. Learn to accept yourself just the way আপনি are.

Trust me, if আপনি do this, আপনি will be a আরো confident person.
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Thunderhorse007 said:
Two words: Mad Swag. Swagger comes from within; আপনি can't expect to please everyone. Just be yourself. Have a great sense of humor (but don't laugh obnoxiously), if আপনি don't like your laugh try to change it to a chuckle. I laugh loud and proud, and I could not care less about what people think. আপনি can't be a shadow, not associating with anybody. Get out! Meet new people, explore new things. Express your opinions without a care in the world; just put it to them nicely. I talk a little too much, I can be weird sometimes, I overconfident, and everybody loves me. I'm one of the most জনপ্রিয় kids in school because of my personality; so why not you? Get out there and প্রদর্শনী them your stuff!
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xXxJDloverxXx said:
আপনি sound a lot like me...

It seems like আপনি have low self esteem and maybe some depression from this, আপনি sound quite self conscious around people and what they think of you, you're probably a really nice/fun person, but আপনি let the consciousness take over and that makes আপনি think you're not a nice person, the people that try to speak to আপনি are probably the same, they WANT to speak and start a conversation but it can be hard to do as it's hard to just randomly speak lots about যেভাবে খুশী things sometimes, maybe find something that আপনি and another person have in common (like maybe আপনি both like the same TV show) and talk about that, অথবা আপনি could যোগদান a few সংগঠন that you're interested in (like a Sports club অথবা something) then you'd definitely have something in common there!
আপনি could try doing Volunteering, আপনি meet loads of new people at events and stuff plus you'd feel better about yourself knowing you've helped someone else.

Everyone probably thinks আপনি are a very nice person, আপনি just need to convince yourself! =)
Hope this helped a bit.
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AlOoOosh said:
-No one in this world is good enough , but আপনি must প্রণয় yourself , and that's how আপনি make other people প্রণয় আপনি .

-People who blame themselves and say they aren't good enough are probably very good people , because that represents that আপনি have feelings and আপনি judge yourself when আপনি do something wrong :)

-Don't আপনি worry about your laugh , আপনি can change it .
Let me tell আপনি a secret , once I had a really weird laugh , but I've changed into a better one :)
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FLUFFYMUFFIN said:
আপনি know im jest like you...nobody at church school ect. likes me. but u know wut...the best way to get বন্ধু is to talk to them. dont act all...WEIRD like used to act. if people dont jest like whom আপনি are then THE HECK WITH THEM! cuz if আপনি feel confident and strong আপনি will pick up বন্ধু a tone faster! plz lisin to me cuz i know how আপনি feel and i worked my way up! ^_^ lisin...i was bullied দ্বারা a boy and a girl bro and sis my whole live! and STILL AM being bullied at দ্বারা them! not to long পূর্বে i told that idiot Katie to back off cuz she dosnt know ANYTHING about me! I told her shes a jerk and a plain bullie! and gess wut! after i stopped allowing people to bullie me...i have 3 AWSOME TRUSTING FRIENDS! and if আপনি need আরো বন্ধু ill be your friend! ^_^ jest remember to NEVER GIVE IN!!
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 আপনি know im jest like you...nobody at church school ect. likes me. but u know wut...the best way to get বন্ধু is to talk to them. dont act all...WEIRD like used to act. if people dont jest like whom আপনি are then THE HECK WITH THEM! cuz if আপনি feel confident and strong আপনি will pick up বন্ধু a tone faster! plz lisin to me cuz i know how আপনি feel and i worked my way up! ^_^ lisin...i was bullied দ্বারা a boy and a girl bro and sis my whole live! and STILL AM being bullied at দ্বারা them! not to long পূর্বে i told that idiot Katie to back off cuz she dosnt know ANYTHING about me! I told her shes a jerk and a plain bullie! and gess wut! after i stopped allowing people to bullie me...i have 3 AWSOME TRUSTING FRIENDS! and if আপনি need আরো বন্ধু ill be your friend! ^_^ jest remember to NEVER GIVE IN!!
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