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I'm a 16 বছর old. I'm very antisocial because my mother and step-father fight a lot so I've kind of redrawn from society. I watch a lot of amime, I feel closer to the characters than to real people. I do have a few friends, but I hardly hang out outside of school. I actually have a crush on an জীবন্ত character after my crush rejected me a few years back. I tell people that it's juts a joke and for show, but I can't get over these characters. I'm getting some hate for it, what should I do?
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kid_symmetry said:
Hello!
About your parents fighting, just remember, it's not your fault! They may blame you, they may say its your fault, but it's really not your fault! I have a friend who's parents drink a lot and they always tell him that he's worthless and he's nothing, but in reality, he did nothing wrong. I think the best thing to do would be to write a letter to your parents. It may seem stupid, but it will প্রদর্শনী them how much it means to আপনি that they at least try to figure it out অথবা solve the problem.
And about your জীবন্ত crush, it's totally alright. I went through that stage. When I find myself doing that, I just go with it until I feel like its getting rediculous on a serious level. আপনি seem like a really nice person, and I can't see why people wouldn't like you! A good way to feel আরো accepted is to try to plan dates to just hang out with your বন্ধু at a nearby park/movie theater/ whatever.
If আপনি want to talk about it more, feel free to message me!
Always there, T.
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Thank আপনি so much, I feel so much better. :)
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monkeemania said:
Hey! To tell আপনি the truth, im kinda going through the same thing that your are with the জীবন্ত but with my পছন্দ band/show. I just moved and changed schools last বছর so everything changed. I didn't really have any good বন্ধু at my new school and never hung out with people out of school. I had a best friend that moved the same time i did (she মতামত প্রদত্ত on your প্রশ্ন to.) but there was three hours difference from the places we lived so when I was finished with my homework she was sleeping. so when I was bored অথবা lonely I would listen and watch a band called the monkees that was জনপ্রিয় in the 60s.

soon enough, they became my best friends. They made me laugh when i was crying, amused when i was bored, and I knew I could never leave them like i had to leave my real বন্ধু when i moved. At school, I talked about them like crazy and I started to realize that they were blocking my could-be friendships, but they were my best friends, how could i stop talking to them?

finally, I found someone who was just as passionate about them as I was. I actually found her on fanpop. we started লেখা each other and now, were the greatest of friends. I found myself talking less and less about the monkees at school and that people started wanting to hang out with me.

so what im saying is, if আপনি have the same problem, try to find people who find the same things interesting that আপনি do on fanpop. than আপনি will start প্রদর্শিত হচ্ছে you, instead of the thing that আপনি enjoy allot, to people at school. hoped this helped and sorry for the long story!
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Thanks a bunch. Both of your মতামত have helped, I feel heaps better about it :)
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FLUFFYMUFFIN said:
ah im jest like you. ive been in a battle with bullies...BUT the only thing that matters to is that i NEVER GIVE!! no matter how big the problem is dont back down! your 16 and your tierd of being mocked and having to deal with fighting parents... so take a stand! আপনি will never help anything if আপনি jest stand there.(i found out the HARD way) tell your mom that আপনি প্রণয় her and she might soften and think আরো clearly...and tell your dad the same.And dont forget that God loves আপনি no matter what! I wish আপনি lood luck! oh and I understand likeing "unreal" characters আরো that real people. OH AND TELL YOUR বন্ধু THAT IF THEY DONT LIKE YOUR প্রণয় FOR জীবন্ত THEN THEY SHOULD KNOW THAT NOTHING IS WRONG LOVING "UNREAL" CHARACTERS!!! AND THAT আপনি DONT CARE ABOUT WHAT RUDE THINGS THEY SAY!! i wish আপনি the best of luck! ^_^ and never forget...NEVER GIVE IN!!
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 ah im jest like you. ive been in a battle with bullies...BUT the only thing that matters to is that i NEVER GIVE!! no matter how big the problem is dont back down! your 16 and your tierd of being mocked and having to deal with fighting parents... so take a stand! আপনি will never help anything if আপনি jest stand there.(i found out the HARD way) tell your mom that আপনি প্রণয় her and she might soften and think আরো clearly...and tell your dad the same.And dont forget that God loves আপনি no matter what! I wish আপনি lood luck! oh and I understand likeing "unreal" characters আরো that real people. OH AND TELL YOUR বন্ধু THAT IF THEY DONT LIKE YOUR প্রণয় FOR জীবন্ত THEN THEY SHOULD KNOW THAT NOTHING IS WRONG LOVING "UNREAL" CHARACTERS!!! AND THAT আপনি DONT CARE ABOUT WHAT RUDE THINGS THEY SAY!! i wish আপনি the best of luck! ^_^ and never forget...NEVER GIVE IN!!
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Thanks so much, all of your মতামত are making me feel really good. I was having a shit day, so thanks for cheering me up :)
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writer67 said:
many in life cant escape from their envoriment within the family limits. the জীবন্ত u can relate to n it gives u an escape. n so what if u have a crush on an anime! many cant tell its a joke as they rnt aware of real life, as they too have problems,they tell no one of.hope your studying n getting good grades as they will allow u to get away into the great big wide world. but setain things u don't have to tell others.n take it easy, u may b antisocial so to speak but u have a golden heart. maybe u could take a part time job somewhere, to get u out ,to start building. but good luck, cost u one শ্রদ্ধার্ঘ্য দ্বারা the way!!!

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Thank আপনি very much, আপনি all have made me feel so better about this
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