Is it wrong to not want to marry?

Well there are those who are to be married and those who are to be single for the gospel sake. Its ok to not get married but do understand most people in the bible who weren't married were very dedicated to the Lord, while others complied to the "be fruitful and multiply".

I'm going to go in the opposite direction of most people here and say - good for you. You're standing up for what আপনি want, and not what society অথবা anyone else tells আপনি to want, and that's not only brave, it's what আপনি should do if আপনি truly want to be happy in life.

Really, আপনি don't NEED anything other people tell আপনি that আপনি need to be happy. আপনি don't need money, অথবা a wife, অথবা kids, অথবা a white picket fence and a high paying job. What আপনি need to be happy is what you want, not what anyone else wants, and this country was founded on the pursuit of happiness.

I don't know what led আপনি to the place আপনি are now. Whether it was a series of failed relationships, অথবা a lack thereof, অথবা something in between, অথবা maybe আপনি never were interested in the first place, I don't know. It's possible, as others say, that this is just what আপনি want in the moment and could change in the future when আপনি "meet the right girl." That's possible, although it's not necessarily destined to happen, either. If you've felt this way for a long time, আপনি may continue to feel this way.

The good news is that, unlike the opposite (wanting to get married, have kids, etc), NOT wanting these things and changing your mind later is much easier to do than the opposite. If আপনি think আপনি want to get married, then realize later আপনি don't, you're stuck with a messy divorce. Whereas, if আপনি change your mind later, all আপনি have to do is find the right girl who wants the same things.

On the topic of sexuality, which I know many Christians do not like to discuss, it is possible (though I don't want to assume) that আপনি are simply disinterested in romance and sex at all. If that is true, I just want to assure আপনি that's a normal condition and to many people that sort of thing just isn't important to them and doesn't factor into their lives at all. And they still live long, fulfilling lives. Like I ব্যক্ত - I'm not saying you are asexual - I lack the sufficient information - but on the off chance that আপনি অথবা anyone else is, it's a normal condition.

I believe that God told Christians to be fruitful and multiply in Biblical times because the Earth was underpopulated. In all honesty, in modern times, I don't feel that order applies. Instead, I'm sure God would be just as happy if আপনি adopted an unwanted child and brought him অথবা her up Christian, rather than adding another mouth for this strained planet to feed and support.

I also don't think that all Christians must either marry অথবা be celibate priests. There are thousands of Christians who are single দ্বারা choice. They're no আরো অথবা less devout than married Christians, either, it's just a life choice. And I know many Christians who believe if you're gay, the BEST choice is to just be celibate and refrain from marrying anyone - to avoid sinning through a gay relationship, and to avoid being miserable forcing him অথবা herself into a straight relationship.

I'm sorry Sweetie, I have been there and I think many people go through feeling like that at some point and some stay there longer. I think God wants us to be complete as human beings through Him and in ourselves. People can be an aset and some do "alone" better and for longer (like me, I am pretty okay with myself and being alone) yet - a mate is for help আরো than need perhaps. I don't think people should marry that have unfaithful tendancies and who know that, really, it is unfair. Ir may be a chance but I think if someone ALSO has a problem with the idea of a committed relationship then maybe they should shy away from that and give themselves persission to accept a truth about themselves.

Perhaps when someone comes along that আপনি truly WANT and are evenly yoked with and it just "clicks" then আপনি might change your mind. If not, it really is your choice. People say God did not make us to be alone, and yet I have found companionship in Him, in animals, and people in my life and I have বন্ধু if I want to go do stuff. Everyone is different and yet we are v=basically the same. It is ONLY my opinion here, not scripture, but there is a difference in being alone vs. lonely, and a difference in being truly alone vs. content in where আপনি are at. I don't know if that makes sense but in such choices, I pray about things if I feel I need to.

নমস্কার ShadowFan100, maybe আপনি just aren't ready for that commitment with a woman, the commitment comes from a thing called love, when we প্রণয় someone we never want to leave them and we want to have them in our lives forever, maybe আপনি aren't ready to প্রণয় somebody in that way, it's definitely not wrong not to marry according to the bible, in fact the apostles of the new testament even encourage it although they have nothing against married people, although according to the bible sex outside of marriage is wrong, tell me though, why have আপনি প্রদত্ত up on women?

আপনি don't have to marry if আপনি don't want to, no one can force আপনি too

i'm gonna put it short sex before mariage is a sin but not wanting to marry is not

Well, it depends on what way আপনি look at it. If আপনি want to have sex, but don't want to get married, then, yes, it is wrong. But if আপনি don't wanna have sex, but instead just wanna live a life without a BF/GF, that is perfectly fine.

Yes, it's still wrong because it's under God law. Also marriage is
a contract অথবা a law that আপনি promise to live and প্রণয় with the couple forever

Go dude! Who needs marriage? But in all seriousness, আপনি do not need to marry if আপনি don't want to. It's normal and if someone has a problem with that, it's their problem, not yours.

That's Just Fine.There Is Nothing Wrong With Not Wanting To Marry.According To খ্রীষ্টধর্ম Marriage Is A Sacred Ceremony Which Can Bond আপনি And Your Partner And Help আপনি Come Closer To God But It Is Not Forced On People.You And Your Loved One Decide To Make That Step.Also Not To Mention That Most Couples I Have Seen Always End Up Breaking Up অথবা Living A Miserable Family Life Just Because They Rushed To Marriage !!!!