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so what do আপনি think about gender roles? :(

hello everyone, personally i think they are tedious and they suck, i think boys should be who they want to be an girls also should be what they want, I'm sure most girls will stay girly and vice-versa anyways, like what's the point? is there even a useful reason for gender roles and gender stereotyping? :)
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bri-marie said:
I don't think I'm adequately able (still) to give my beliefs on this. But, I'll give it ago.

I think gender roles are fairly important. I think it's important to have roles that cater to gender strengths. Men are (typically) stronger than women, so it makes sense that jobs such as construction be aimed আরো for men. Women (typically) have a better ability to use both halves of their brains, so it makes sense that jobs that require "thinking outside the box" অথবা multi-tasking be aimed আরো for women.

However, I do not think that gender roles should be limiting. I don't think that construction jobs should only be men, অথবা multi-tasking jobs be only women. I think all genders (and non genders!) are needed in all jobs. It's just as important than women be construction workers as it is men be construction workers.

Think of it this way: you're in a group project. There are four people on your team. আপনি need a leader, a person to keep track of everything that happens, a researcher, and a person who puts the project together. Obviously, you're going to assign these tasks based on everyone's strengths. However, you're not going to just automatically assign these jobs. Sally is best at researching, but she doesn't want to research this time. So, আপনি all vote so আপনি can give everyone an equal shot at the job they want.

As I said, I'm not very good at explaining my মতামত on gender roles. I have no idea if my example make any sense to anyone but me :x
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However, gender stereotyping is a completely different thing. I don't see much use in stereotyping at all.
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I ব্যক্ত why I feel that why. সেকেন্ড sentence, সেকেন্ড paragraph.
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oh okay
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Cinders said:
They're arbitrary. They aren't bad, and they aren't law, they're dictated দ্বারা culture, one hundred percent.

In matriarchal cultures, women held the power. Some even fought as soldiers. But the matriarchal cultures, ironically, were আরো focused on, well, আরো cultural and internal pursuits. The patriarchal cultures were আরো warring... and they invaded many of the matriarchal cultures. Which is why that's the way in most places today.

But gender roles are entirely dictated দ্বারা the culture in which you're born. There's nothing wrong with that, but it does amuse me when someone tries to link it to science অথবা biology - it's neither, it's sociology. Anthropology. That's all.

And then there's this:

"In every known human society, the male’s need for achievement can be recognized. Men may cook, অথবা weave অথবা dress পুতুল অথবা hunt hummingbirds, but if such activities are appropriate occupations of men, then the whole society, men and women alike, মতামত them as important. When the same occupations are performed দ্বারা women, they are regarded as less important. In a great number of human societies men’s sureness of their sex role is tied up with their right, অথবা ability, to practice some activity that women are not allowed to practice. Their maleness, in fact, has to be underwritten দ্বারা preventing women from entering some field অথবা performing some feat."

- Margaret Mead, a brilliant (female!) anthropologist.
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hmm...okay this is tough to understand, i think আপনি saying that when a man does something it's all cool and sftuff, but when a woman does it it's like, whatever, and yes, that has been the case for a number of years, plus the need for a man to be "manly" can prevent guys from doing a lot of stuff, because, what's manly is in a very small box, i mean look at gender roles this way, if a woman is loving caring kind nurtuting, sweet, the man "has" to be the oposite, there's no colaboration, gender roles are made to make women "compliment" men and vice versa, this can be annoying and troubling in many aspects, rather than just letting men and girls out of the box of gender roles, it's not bad to aknowlege men and women's differences, but not to force those differences on to people through *social norms* which can be even stricter than laws in our hearts which long দিন and night for acceptance and প্রণয় from ourpeers/fellow man
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:\ long
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Heroine999 said:
Gender roles?Did আপনি say gender roles?Wow...can't believe there is such thing as that.It's stupid.There's no point to it because if if everybody to follow it then this world would be very boring.It just so stupid and entertaining to me!*Laughs*
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^ ^ thankyou!
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VERY much :P
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lol! ^ ^ thx cassie, yeah that's what i ment :P
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cassie-1-2-3 said:
Gender roles aren't gender requirements, so I think they're fine. I think it's okay for different actions to be labled "masculine" অথবা "feminine". If there's ever a time where a male can comfortably take on femenine tasks, and a female take on masculine, and femele femenine, and male masculine, then I don't see how gender roles would be a problem at all. If people were generally accepting, gender wise, then why wouldn't they accept femeninity and masculinity?

Honestly, the idea of everything being completely neutral seems a bit grim.
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they can be sort of like requirements sometimes, they are like social norms, people get mistreated if they are seen in a different role sometimes, i think most people do accept masculinity and femininity but, they don't accept people who want to go out of that, um, i like neutral, i think, but, why does it seem grim?
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*wants*
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well, that's just me, cause right now my life is sucking, im so lonely. i have no বন্ধু to talk to অথবা hang out with, i feel useless and a lot of other things, i know it's fun to try and struggle to succede, because that helps us feel special and better than the rest, but then some of us are on the other end of the stick
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dreamfields said:
Some gender roles are based in our makeup. People mention strength in this discussion, but that is not the only one. For instance each fetus starts out with a bridge connecting to two lobes of the brain. If the fetus developes into a male, the bridge disolves. Thus men think with one side of thier brain at a time while women can think with both sides art the same time. This explains why men and women think differently. One is not better than the other, they are just different.
Culuture can be the major factor in gender roles. Not all men অথবা women fit 100% of thier gender role. Each person should be able to use thier abilities regardless of gender. The প্রশ্ন to consider is how many people may be unconfortable and whether অথবা not আপনি are willing to put up with it.
One last thing I would like to add. In many areas around the world women are seen to be less and abuse of them is tolerated. Abuse is never right, it is always wrong. Even if we have different "gender roles", we are all equal in God's eyes.
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at not art :)
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that's so true dreamfields, women r seen in very lesser way sometimes, and because of females being seen as the homemakers, in modern times when women have to work, now they have to be homemakers "and" breadwinners. Sure girls and guys r different that's true, and im beginning to take back my sayings about hating gender roles, it;s just that a man's role should not "only" be for a man, eg. my little cousin wanted to learn how to swim, but his father wasn't around much, so they ব্যক্ত he needs to be taught "by a man" how to do that, that got me a little irritated, because i felt as if girls in general weren't good enough for that sort of task
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that makes sense
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alismouha said:
What Bri-marie said. They're fine as long as they aren't limiting. Although I do find them stupid, unnecessary, and sometimes sexist. It has always been quite baffling what is accepted as a social norm and what isn't.
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they are limiting sometimes :\
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HeitsiTsegin said:
I think if a girl wants to go and become a scientist, then why the hell not?
I also think if a guy wants to watch my little টাট্টু and/or become a fassion designer, then why the hell not?

I'm aganst gender roles, no matter if the gender roles do favour my gender. It's only right that women should be able to go out and do what they should.
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^ ^ yay!
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I so agree with আপনি bro.
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I agree. And I found that first paragraph funny (not in a bad way) because I'm a guy and I watch My Little Pony. I agree.
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ha ha, you're not the first, there's my father along with other guys on ফ্যানপপ :P (he only watches it because my little sister does)
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PlayingWithFire said:
I do agree with bri-marie, they're not always bad. But it is sometimes frustrating when people call me a "faggot" অথবা a "pussy" just because I watch My Little Pony, am not afraid to cry, and am আরো into the artistic careers.
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:O a pussy? oh that's low
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Yeah, it sucks.
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