hey, i used to be a christian girl, but last year, i turned goth, everyone keeps saying they miss the old me, so i dont no wat 2 do! i need help... plez!!!!!

It's not about religion-I'm christian and goth..I উপদেশ আপনি to be a goth,cuz that is how আপনি feel like and nobody can tell আপনি who to be...

Just be yourself-whatever আপনি feel it is!

Just be yourself,be how আপনি are be free if আপনি want to dress black,pruple অথবা পরাকাষ্ঠা your বন্ধু dosent have to arque অথবা say anything to আপনি because that what আপনি want to do.... & Bessides if আপনি turned Goth that dosent mean আপনি have to change inside your still the same only the outside what's difference.

Just do whatever আপনি feel is You. If it's not আপনি then what is it? Do আপনি miss the old you, অথবা are আপনি happy with being goth, because it is just আপনি being yourself, অথবা are আপনি having সেকেন্ড thoughts because it's not and it's just a phase আপনি are going through. প্রশ্ন আপনি need to think about, answering them should help your problem.

I hope, just trying to help.

Also being goth should have absolutely no effect on rather অথবা not আপনি are a christian, আপনি can be goth and christian. Pleanty of goths are christians. They can be whatever they want to be, being goth is a personal life style and there are no rules to it.

I know how আপনি feel. But never forget this: No matter what your outer shell apearence is, আপনি inner soul is what tells others who আপনি really are. the steriotypes block everything, but they're too afraid to look into your eyes to look through the windows of your soul. The old আপনি was probably your cocoon, and your new self is just the beginning of your metamorphosis of searching yourself and trying to become a woman of what she sets her own rules, instead of listening to others. They don't understand, as they secretly want to be like you, but underneath they're souls are writhing in pain, wishing to be what they want to be, but their washed away from fear of what others may think. Your change of not listening to others and their opinions, shows that your a strong willed, confident person who is ব্রেভ and strong. We maybe all individuals, but I can see outer shells that long to be like the others, but not all can be alike অথবা the same. If we were all like one another, the world be an asylum of happy smiling zombies that suffer from fear of termination and being outcasted. Never be afraid of who আপনি are, man!! Live up to your goals!

just tell them tht u like the new u, if u do, and if their true বন্ধু they'll say দ্বারা ur side no matter what. If they don't then find new ones who will stick দ্বারা u changes অথবা no changes. Let me know if it helps!

u can be goth and still be Christian হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ and if U like the way u look and act then stay that way ur not here to impression others অথবা make others happy ur here for u