A দিন to tell our partners how much we প্রণয় them. But what happen with all those who just broke up with their partners? Those who were deceived and do not want to trust in প্রণয় again? What happens with all those people who are still searching for their soul mate despite years and years of unfruitful searching? অথবা those who are desperate to find someone to প্রণয় because they do believe in love. What happens to those who wait in hope that this বছর their “Valentine” will finally realize that they প্রণয় them… but they won’t; and they will spend another বছর alone waiting in hope with a টক smile in their faces.
Honestly, Valentine ’s দিন might have started as a দিন to celebrate প্রণয় but nowadays it has become another দিন to force people to ভান্দার compulsively for things that they don’t need অথবা they don’t want to buy in order to express their love. Most men know that they will be in trouble if they don’t buy an expensive present for their women. So, they buy an expensive present, not as an expression of their love, but as a way to avoid trouble. Like in Monopoly, they are buying their “get out of jail” cards.
Please do not take me wrong, I am a romantic
Why I hate Valentine’s Day
Because if I say that I hate Valentine’s Day, most people automatically will think that I am either an old angry spinster অথবা -for those who know me and know that I am neither old অথবা a spinster- I am just having a very rough period in my প্রণয় life. Neither of them is true, but most people do not understand how someone who is happy in a relationship cannot like and look forwards to Valentine’s Day.
I never know what to buy as a Valentine’s present. Having just come out of বড়দিন it is difficult to find another original present for Romeo.
It has been horrible every time I have been single. All my বন্ধু in a relationship had something special planned for February 14th and they felt sorry for me if I ব্যক্ত I was staying in watching TV অথবা পাঠ করা a book. It didn’t bother me at all staying in like any other day, but I felt humiliated at my বন্ধু feeling sorry for me!
When I have been in a relationship the presents have rarely been up to romantic standards. I am a very romantic person. I expect Prince charming to bring the moon down for me. Now when Charming appears with a Hallmark card and a box of chocolates bought at the Esso station –with the price still attached- when he knows I am on a diet… that is disheartening. The worst part is having to pretend to be pleasantly surprised and thankful that he remembered Valentine’s day.
There are so many beautiful poems in classic literature that it is annoying to read the silly messages written in most commercial cards. Why can Romeo not take 20 মিনিট of his time and copy for আপনি one of your favourite প্রণয় poems; even better, why can he not write আপনি a few words of his own! As I mentioned before in the forums, the only Valentine’s card I have ever kept is one a man made for me himself.
All the couples আপনি know look so in প্রণয় on Valentine’s দিন that it sucks! আপনি know he is double timing your friend, but আপনি don’t say anything because she never told him that she was a stripper before she met him, and anyway it is not your business. But all the displays of false perfect প্রণয় just want to make আপনি throw up. আপনি know that later that night they will be arguing again about something trivial.
I hate to hear the competitiveness between girls on Valentine’s Day. Someone boasting about their enormous bouquet of flowers, while the other one claims that her man really loves her because he never takes her out but tonight they are going to the best restaurant in the city. Doesn’t she realize that it is only a Valentine’s দিন marketing game, he never takes her out except on Valentine’s Day, and she is delighted. Poor girl!
Valentine’s Day, like weddings, বড়দিন and New Year’s celebrations bully us into losing weight. Women are desperate to lose all the extra grams that they gained during the বড়দিন holidays in order to wear their red Valentine’s lingerie. Why wait for Valentine’s, can’t we just lose weight because of ourselves, because we want to look our best ALL the time?
If আপনি are not in a relationship and আপনি go out with a girlfriend on Valentine’s Day, the odds are that anyone who sees আপনি will think আপনি are a lesbian.
Valentine’s দিন makes men do stupid things like
Most men are not very romantic and আপনি will end up disappointed but you’ll boast about your present পরবর্তি দিন at work anyway.
Why MUST we celebrate প্রণয় one দিন a year?
In my ideal world I would like to be romanced every single দিন of the year. I would like to feel loved and needed every day, not just one silly দিন in the calendar. Why not celebrate প্রণয় every time we can?I don’t need a special দিন অথবা a special occasion to tell my boy that I প্রণয় him that I am head over heels about him. I don’t need someone to remind me in the calendar that it is time to send him a loving card অথবা a message. He doesn’t need a দিন marked in the calendar to make me feel special.
Valentine’s দিন might be a positive celebration for the ভান্দার keepers, restaurants, jewellers and other businesses, but it doesn’t do much for your relationship.
I am not against genuine demonstrations of প্রণয় on Valentine’s day, what I am against is simple consumerism to disguise the lack of love.
