There have been a lot of fights going on recently that have been over the same reasons. Some people want this club, the MJ club, to be for MJ only. Fair enough. But what about when people want to share some প্রণয় and blessings with other fans? People get annoyed with us for that and I don't understand why. Michael believed in sharing প্রণয় with other people. He did it all the time. That was one of his biggest messages so therefore it counts as having something to do with MJ so it can be put on this club. Whenever people see things like this they think it's for our own personal purposes.

The অনুরাগী are also a part of this club because Michael loved us dearly. He even wrote a song for us called আপনি Are So Beautiful. Even though it wasn't released, the feelings behind it are true. This club isn't only for Michael's music. It's about the legacy, the messages, the fans, the person, along with the সঙ্গীত and so much more. It's sad that some people only like him for his সঙ্গীত and nothing else. They've stated it before. People like that fail to realise the messages that Michael gave out so they think that all the really dedicated অনুরাগী are crazy. When অনুরাগী ask other অনুরাগী প্রশ্ন about প্রণয় and faith, their usual response is "get over it" অথবা "stop being a medal-whore". Not once do they think what they're getting themselves into. Then when we ask why they মতামত if they say they know they might start arguements, they respond with "because I can". Just because আপনি can, it doesn't mean আপনি should.

I wish that people could understand that MJ অনুরাগী are gonna be আরো sensitive towards মতামত they don't like. A lot of people say that we need to get over his death. That's like telling us to get over our mother's death. The person we প্রণয় and cherish isn't here anymore and of course we will miss him and never let him go. When people say that we need to get over it, it's like telling us to forget about him. But how can we? Michael was a huge part of our lives for most of us. He cheered us up, gave us faith, opened our eyes not only through his সঙ্গীত but through the person that he was. People only realize how it is for the big MJ অনুরাগী when they lose something অথবা someone themselves. It shouldn't be like that though.

Can't people try to think of things from our view? I've tried to think of things from other people's point of view and most of the time I understand why they say things that we might not like. অথবা they could just keep their মতামত to themselves. It's not that hard. Fights never cause anything good. They hurt people, they upset people, they make people angry over the smallest things and they bring out a side of people that sometimes they didn't even know existed. I've even seen friendships end over MJ fights. We have to stop. Even though fights will happen, it's natural, we have to reduce how often we have them. I'm sure I'm not the only one who's sick of them.

I'm also sure that অনুরাগী will continue to post what they like and some of those things will involve expressing feelings. So, please, don't laugh, don't act annoyed অথবা disgusted, don't be sarcsatic অথবা rude. A lot of us are deep and sensitive, just because some of আপনি might not be, it doesn't mean আপনি can make fun of us and do things that will start arguements. That's exactly what Michael went through. People were mean to him and laughed at him for spreading the প্রণয় that people needed. For most people it was out of the ordinary but that doesn't mean it's wrong.

So my main point is that we have to stop arguing so much. We've already had enough! Fights get us nowhere. It's time to truly look at Michael's messages and put them into action. It's fine agreeing with me and saying that things need to change but actually have to act.