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I'm lost!

Ok, first of all, I know there are a lot of similar questions, but I need help!

I'm a girl, I'm 14, I'm virgin and my parents are totaly oposite to lesbians, bis, etc...

I really like men! But I like girls too! Last week I took a ঝরনা with my friend, and it turned me on.

What should I do?
Is it normal?
Am I bi?
Will this last forever?
Should I talk about it with my parents?
With my friends?
Will they still be my friends?
 I'm lost!
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Cinders said:
No one, on this website অথবা off of it, can tell আপনি what your sexuality is. That would be like someone telling আপনি what your dreams are, অথবা what your opinions are. You're right when আপনি say similar প্রশ্ন have been asked before, so I'm going to refer আপনি to some of my উত্তর to those to avoid repeating myself.

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As far as your বন্ধু go - if they refuse to be বন্ধু with আপনি because of who আপনি are, they were never your বন্ধু in the first place. It may sound cliche, but that's because it's true.

Family is আরো complicated. I'd like to believe that parents would প্রণয় their child no matter what, but that doesn't believe that they will accept their child's sexuality, and not try to change their child. Since you're still exploring your own sexuality, I wouldn't talk to your parents about it just yet, if they make আপনি anxious.

My best উপদেশ would be to seek out a school counselor অথবা a trusted friend and discuss this matter with that person. School counselors are bound দ্বারা confidentiality, and will not tell your parents অথবা anyone about what আপনি say to them. The only time they are aloud to break this confidentiality contract is if আপনি threaten harm to yourself অথবা others, but this won't be an issue in this matter (I hope).

Hope this helps.
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Thx! It helped me a lot!
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sapherequeen said:
First thing I want to say, in case this makes আপনি feel better, is that I may be Bi too. :)
I've been thinking about it for quite a while...

Now, to answer your questions.

1) I personally wouldn't do anything yet if unsure. I mean, I'd suggest that আপনি wait until আপনি know for a fact that you're Bi, then figure out what to do next.

2) It's almost completely normal. Don't worry :)

3) আপনি may be. আপনি could also be what some call "bi-curious". This is when a person feels attracted to both genders for quite some time, but are unsure on whether they truly are bi অথবা not (If I'm mistaken, feel free to point this out!).

4) That depends. If আপনি are indeed bi, it may last forever. If not, I'm sure it wouldn't.

5) It depends if আপনি feel comfortable sharing this with them. If you're সামগ্রিক ready to tell your parents that আপনি may be bi, I'd say go ahead. :)
But if you're not ready to tell anyone yet, maybe আপনি could wait a little while until আপনি can.

6) Now that one, I can't answer for sure.
I don't know your বন্ধু personally, but even with that I wouldn't be able to answer this in confidence.

What I will say is this....if they do end up not being your বন্ধু if they found out, that would be their problem. Not yours. Whether bi অথবা not, you're still the awesome girl I and others know আপনি as. :)

If other people don't see it, it's on them.

Hope I helped...
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THE BEST ANSWER!! U TOLD ME EXCATLY WHA I NEEDED TO HER! THX!
Andressa_Weld posted বছরখানেক আগে
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No problem. Glad I helped :)
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U did! helped a lot! It's good to know i'm not the only!
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nan0 said:
Well I think U are Bi and it Normal আপনি can still be friend with her yes it will last forever I think u should talk to your parent about it yes can talk with your friend about that!
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I don't think it'll last forever!
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cherry7878 said:
yes ur bi and theres nothing wrong with it be urself
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Monrose said:
আপনি may be bisexual. It really depends on yyour friend, so I don't knoww if আপনি should tell them অথবা not. Same with your parents.
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