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Why did this happen?

Me and my boyfriend were having phone sex (something we do quite often) last night and I was close to... well... আপনি know. But then right as I got there I felt very sad and distressed and stopped started crying. I have no idea why this happened but I think it might be this: I haven't felt as emotionally close to him lately as I did when we first started doing this so... I had no idea why this happened and this is the only place I could imagine an answer coming from.
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bri-marie said:
Technically, it could be any number of reasons: a new medication, close to that time of the month, a late reaction to something upsetting (that happens to me a lot. Something distressing will happen but it won't bother me for a week অথবা two. And then, out of no where, I'll start crying), whacked out hormones.

If you're feeling less attached to your boyfriend (and আপনি think this is the cause of the crying) then perhaps আপনি should take a break from the phone sex. Try doing things together; going to a movie, অথবা out to ডিনার (or something like that). Try and bring back that emotional connection.

Also, maybe it's time to look at your relationship and decide how আপনি really feel about him. Perhaps your feeling emotionally distant because those feelings just aren't there like they used to be.
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Well we're teenagers and his mother won't let him see me outside of school til we've been together for 6 months. The 25th will have been 4 months and the rule puts a huge strain on me mentally.
LoveforSeverus posted বছরখানেক আগে
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I understand. Perhaps that's part of it - maybe it's the stress of not really being able to see him.
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CornChips said:
Maybe that could be it, আপনি desire আরো connection from your boyfriend. Phone sex isn't really something আপনি can bond/connect on in my opinion. Maybe আপনি can talk to him on how আপনি feel about this and how আপনি feel about him emotionally. আপনি two should talk on that and help strengthen your relationship. I hope that helps. :/
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