lesbian, but প্রণয় my boyfriend... wth is wrong with me?

Ok, sweetie, listen up- first of all, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. OK? Nothing.

My friend has went through the exact same thing, now he's out and he couldn't be happier- literally.

From the sounds of it, আপনি are a lesbian. If আপনি don't find men at all attractive but আপনি find women are, then like I said, আপনি probably are a lesbian.

I think that it's time আপনি stopped pretending.

I know আপনি প্রণয় your boyfriend, but আপনি can't be with him if you're a lesbian (well আপনি could but আপনি know what I mean), if আপনি want to be with a girl, then be with a girl.

I KNOW আপনি don't want to hurt him but the problem, sweetie, is that sometimes, আপনি have to hurt people to do what's right for you- it's the way things are. আপনি can hate it, আপনি can throw things against the দেওয়াল but আপনি can't keep pretending. আপনি have to do what's right for you.

I think আপনি may have to break up with him.

And if আপনি think about it, it would be right for him to, the longer আপনি wait the harder it is going to get on both of you. It's best if আপনি both just get it over with.

Does that sound mean? It does. I just don't think it's right if people string others along because they're afraid they'll be hurt.

আপনি ব্যক্ত he knew of your situation, so, tell him. I KNOW it will be scary for you, and for him, but he has to know the truth.
He'll be hurt, he may not understand অথবা like it but if he's the man আপনি thought he was, he'll be OK with আপনি later and support আপনি once he's gotten over the shock.

There was something else I was going to say but I can't remember- it's also hard to write down. But this is just what I think.

Good luck, I hope it all goes OK for you.

Just remember to be honest to yourself and him.

Well, the way I see it there are three basic kinds of love: romantic, emotional, and sexual love. If আপনি aren't feeling sexually in প্রণয় with your boyfriend, perhaps it is emotional অথবা even romantic.

But আপনি have to ask yourself: Do আপনি imagine yourself spending the rest of your life with him? Would আপনি feel an emptiness inside আপনি if আপনি spent the rest of your life with a male?

If not, maybe আপনি could remain বন্ধু অথবা even take a break for a while. If he cares about you, he'll understand. অথবা if আপনি want to say with him, make sure he knows that a sexual relationship with him is not your শীর্ষ priority.

firstly there is nothing wrong with the way that you're feeling, i think that everyone at some point goes through mixed emotions about their sexual orientation, before choosing a sexuality আপনি should really think about what it is that appeals to আপনি about women, there is a big different between lust and love, আপনি sound like আপনি প্রণয় the guy but don't have any sexual feelings towards him, i think আপনি should sit down and discuss the way আপনি are feeling with him, maybe আপনি could take a break and explore how it is that আপনি really feel

my উপদেশ though would be to not be so quick as to try and label yourself as one thing অথবা another.

Honey, আপনি seem to want to stick to lesbian, and thats OK, and I'm sorry to say I think আপনি must be leaning a little bit bi >.<