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So anyone who read my (LoveforSeverus) last question, I ask to please read this!

So last week, I asked a প্রশ্ন about me and my boyfriend wanting to have sex. Well I had some time to think about it and I decided I didn't want to do it. (Those of আপনি who are obsessive about making sure the guy respects আপনি will প্রণয় this: He took my face in his hands and told me "When you're ready we will do it. There is no rush and it's up to you." Thought that was super sweet and respectful.) Anyway, I went to his house and after about 4 hours of touching, kissing, oral... *cough*... He rubbed his manhood on me and so I told him that I just wanted him to stick it in once, to see what it was like. Well, we did. (By the way I count this as my virginity, what about you?) And that was so weird. It hurt worse than anything I've felt in a long time (it even hurt him a little) but after, it made me wanna go all the way (we didn't, though). I don't know really what the প্রশ্ন here is but I felt like I needed to tell the people who answered my other প্রশ্ন just to see what to do... I want to, but the pain, but I know how he'd make me feel emotionally... GR!


Oh and, lastly, it made me wanna go all the way because I wanted to have him like that... As if, it'd make him mine. All mine... Is it normal to feel that way?
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bri-marie said:
It is completely and totally normal to feel that way. From what I remember about your last question, আপনি cared very deeply for him to begin with, so experiencing something so intimate with him would only heighten that.

The pain is fairly common, and the amount differs from person to person. I've heard some people say that working a slow, gentle rhythm works it out, that waiting with him inside while until the pain fades helps, and some women who've ব্যক্ত they needed to keep trying to get stretched enough. And some times women just have painful intercourse. There can be health reasons (a swollen gland, an oncoming bladder infection, too full a bladder) অথবা it's just how your body is.
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I knew it was gonna hurt, but I think after a while it'd be ok :)
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lilith84 said:
Pain is usually normal my friend, it shouldn't be there পরবর্তি time. আপনি might be a little uncomfortable, just need time to adjust to the feeling of having 'something' inside of you. আপনি just need to be sure that it is what আপনি really want.
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SouthParkSmart said:
I'd consider your loss of virginity to be at oral, but that's just me...

Yes, it is normal to feel that way. The pain, for one. From what I hear, sex is an acquired taste.

Also, the emotional aspect of আপনি feeling that he is yours. I had it explained to me দ্বারা a Christian abstinence advocate. She ব্যক্ত that that attachment that comes from two people sleeping with each other is so that the two people will be আরো likely to stay in a monogamous relationship. It's like if আপনি take two colored pieces of paper and glue them together, then rip them apart, bits of each piece will stick to the other one.
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Well that's actually kinda how I feel!
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jodarchy said:
pain is completley normal the first time আপনি have sex because your rupturing the hymen, the পরবর্তি time it will be uncomfortable for a while, until your body adjusts, when he enters just have him stay still until the pain/uncomfortable feeling goes away
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LadyLilith said:
Basically what lilith84 said. XD Typically the first time will hurt a lot, because you're rupturing your hymen and it's something your body's not used to. The পরবর্তি time he is inside of you, be it another experiment অথবা full out sex, it might hurt/feel uncomfortable in the beginning. But your vagina is a muscle; প্রদত্ত time, it will stretch out enough to accommodate. After that...it should be amazing. অথবা at least very nice. =)

If আপনি think আপনি are ready, I say go for it. Obviously just be careful, pregnancy and STD's, lala. But being intimate with someone আপনি care about...it's mind blowing. Especially since he's your first. It'll be something unforgettable.
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হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ "lala"... believe me, we've talked about all of it
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