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Kinda Personal : My boyfriend told me he masturbated and I'm thinking that it's a reflection on how he finds me attractive..

I know this sounds immature but he told me he masturbated 3 weeks পূর্বে and times before that, and we've been dating for a year. I feel like it's because he doesn't find me attractive, and I know that I sound very insecure right now but it's just we have sex, quite often and i don't see why he needs to masturbate?
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lilith84 said:
It's normal, trust me. I do it too and so does my boyfriend, sometimes even when the other one is in the same room. Self pleasure is important and has no reflection on how attractive your boyfriend finds you. It's probably his way to either give himself a moment of pleasure to relax অথবা relieve some stress. He was honest enough to tell আপনি about it and I doubt it was his intention to hurt you.
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I completley understand that but we have sex 9 to 10 times a week and I kinda just felt like, "oh আপনি enjoy your hand আরো then me?" am i being over dramatic? ugh.
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maybe a little ;) the two of them are different আপনি know... I could have sex 24/7 and still try and find time to have a little 'me' time with just my hand.
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I'm nervous to ask him..I'm nervous for the answer.
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youknowit101 said:
I don"t think a lot of guys masturbation as a part of their sex life. If আপনি ask a guy who's not having sex about his sex life, he probably won't say "It's great, I masturbate at least three times a day"

Don't focus on whether he's masturbating অথবা not, but what he's thinking about when he does. If he was willing to tell আপনি he was masturbating, he should be ok with আপনি asking what he was thinking about. It's really sexy, actually. If he's thinking about you, there's no problem.
He could also have a ফ্যান্টাসি he's too nervous to tell আপনি about and this is his way to get আপনি to ask questions. I tried that with a girl once, but she didn't ask questions, so I dropped it.
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So i took your উপদেশ (thank আপনি very much) and he ব্যক্ত he was thinking about me, which of course is flatering the only thing is, i'm wondering if he's not happy with our sex life. I don't have the balls to ask him that, in your personal opinion would আপনি ever masturbate because your sex life with your girlfriend sucks?
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That might be the reason, but if আপনি guys are having sex 9-10 times a week like আপনি ব্যক্ত and he didn't like it, he wouldn't want to have sex with আপনি so often. Ask him for details about what he was thinking about. if its about something আপনি gguys alwats do, he's probably ok with your sex life. If its something different, he has a ফ্যান্টাসি he might want to make reality
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germany123 said:
i know youre nervous to ask him as আপনি ব্যক্ত but seriously HOW do আপনি expect to have a good relationship with someone if আপনি cant talk to him aboot something thats worrying you? and can i also ask if আপনি are comfortable aboot the amount of sex আপনি guys have?
great answer,eh? two প্রশ্ন :P
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I'm very comfterable with the amount of sex we're having, it's often and very good, at least to me. So when he masturbates it makes me thing that he's not getting enogh অথবা getting it how he wants....l
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