I'm not the type who will point a finger at আপনি অথবা will dispraise you...
In fact, I'd like to understand first.
That's in my nature. To analyze and try to figure out without prejudice.
Girls between 13-17 are very curious about those things. They are curious and they wanna try.
Of course they don't want to talk to their parents, which is understandable, but they are trying to find উত্তর some where else.
Such as older gf/bf অথবা porn movies.
Puberty is a very risk period for both- boys and girls.
They want to try everything.
Not literally everything, but most of the things that seem to be interesting.
Discontent and stress may lead to some big problems.
They all ask if they are pretty অথবা skinny enough, they try to fit, they try to be noticed.
And what's the price?
Consider this:
A very well behaved girl wants to fit, but it's not easy.
She's not sure about drinking alcohol,
but she's thinking though...
She has never smoked a weed,
but will she consider?
She has never had sex,
however she thinks of it a lot.
What will she do?
What's the price?
Is the right time?
Is he the one?
Is she sure about all that?
Is she psychologically and physically ready?
Is she unhappy,malcontent অথবা anxious?
So many প্রশ্ন to be discussed.
But,I will just say,
puberty is very difficult and stressful period
and we should be who we are, no matter what.
If we want to wait,we will wait.
Nobody is going to tell us what would we do.
But, we should be careful and rational.
All in good time.
All in good time.
