When আপনি use greif in your লেখা it's very important আপনি get it right so here is a short প্রবন্ধ to help you.
Here is an extract from link
Grief is a somewhat commplicated and misunderstood emotion. Yet, grief is something that, unfortunately, we must all experience at some time অথবা other. We will all inevitably experience loss. Whether it is a loss through death, divorce অথবা some other loss, the stages of grieving are the same.
The five stages of grief are:
1-Denial-"this can't be happening to me", looking for the former spouse in familia places, অথবা if it is death, setting the টেবিল for the person অথবা অভিনয় as if they are still in living there. No crying. Not accepting অথবা even acknowledging the loss.
2-Anger-"why me?", feelings of wanting to fight back অথবা get even with spouse of divorce, for death, anger at the deceased, blaming them for leaving.
3-Bargaining-bargaining often takes place before the loss. Attempting to make deals with the spouse who is leaving, অথবা attempting to make deals with God to stop অথবা change the loss. Begging, wishing, praying for them to come back.
4-Depression-overwhelming feelings of hopelessness, frustration, bitterness, self pity, mourning loss of person as well as the hopes, dreams and plans for the future. Feeling lack of control, feeling numb. Perhaps feeling suicidal.
5-Acceptance-there is a difference between resignation and acceptance. আপনি have to accept the loss, not just try to ভালুক it quietly. Realization that it takes two to make অথবা break a marriage. Realization that the person is gone (in death) that it is not their fault, they didn't leave আপনি on purpose. (even in cases of suicide, often the deceased person, was not in their right frame of mind) Finding the good that can come out of the pain of loss, finding comfort and healing. Our goals turn toward personal growth. Stay with fond memories of person.
When আপনি write it's very important আপনি use these steps properly and in that order.
Thought it's very tempting to make your character angry, grief is আরো powerful than anger.
Though grief shouldn't be misused for minor things when anger would be আরো apropiate.
A good example of this, I think, is in Wolverine, when his wife was killed and he was instantly angry. I thought something was a bit off about it and that it was a bit cold and the reason for this was I don't think it was powerful enough. This is because anger was used when it should have been denial. And though it was well done, it could have been better if the writer had been আরো skillful when using grief. (I'm not bagging out Wolverine. It's one of my favortie movies. PLEASE DON'T SUE ME.)
I hope this will help to improve your writing.
Thank আপনি for reading.
Happy writing.
Here is an extract from link
Grief is a somewhat commplicated and misunderstood emotion. Yet, grief is something that, unfortunately, we must all experience at some time অথবা other. We will all inevitably experience loss. Whether it is a loss through death, divorce অথবা some other loss, the stages of grieving are the same.
The five stages of grief are:
1-Denial-"this can't be happening to me", looking for the former spouse in familia places, অথবা if it is death, setting the টেবিল for the person অথবা অভিনয় as if they are still in living there. No crying. Not accepting অথবা even acknowledging the loss.
2-Anger-"why me?", feelings of wanting to fight back অথবা get even with spouse of divorce, for death, anger at the deceased, blaming them for leaving.
3-Bargaining-bargaining often takes place before the loss. Attempting to make deals with the spouse who is leaving, অথবা attempting to make deals with God to stop অথবা change the loss. Begging, wishing, praying for them to come back.
4-Depression-overwhelming feelings of hopelessness, frustration, bitterness, self pity, mourning loss of person as well as the hopes, dreams and plans for the future. Feeling lack of control, feeling numb. Perhaps feeling suicidal.
5-Acceptance-there is a difference between resignation and acceptance. আপনি have to accept the loss, not just try to ভালুক it quietly. Realization that it takes two to make অথবা break a marriage. Realization that the person is gone (in death) that it is not their fault, they didn't leave আপনি on purpose. (even in cases of suicide, often the deceased person, was not in their right frame of mind) Finding the good that can come out of the pain of loss, finding comfort and healing. Our goals turn toward personal growth. Stay with fond memories of person.
When আপনি write it's very important আপনি use these steps properly and in that order.
Thought it's very tempting to make your character angry, grief is আরো powerful than anger.
Though grief shouldn't be misused for minor things when anger would be আরো apropiate.
A good example of this, I think, is in Wolverine, when his wife was killed and he was instantly angry. I thought something was a bit off about it and that it was a bit cold and the reason for this was I don't think it was powerful enough. This is because anger was used when it should have been denial. And though it was well done, it could have been better if the writer had been আরো skillful when using grief. (I'm not bagging out Wolverine. It's one of my favortie movies. PLEASE DON'T SUE ME.)
I hope this will help to improve your writing.
Thank আপনি for reading.
Happy writing.
This is written about the perfect silence only found in the dead of night, and the feelings it inspires.
The শিরোনাম comes from the বিবরণ a friend of mine gave when we were stuck in the middle of nowhere at midnight and I found it sort of beautiful.
Enjoy (I hope) :)
Weighted air and winking stars,
darkness draped, tension wrought.
This night, this hour, is ours.
Silence chimes unspoken thoughts
that choke my mouth.
Silver moonbeams in glittering outline
surround you, and in our youth
this night, this hour, we intertwine.
I'd প্রণয় to hear what আপনি like অথবা hate.
Thanks for reading.
DietCokeGirl
The শিরোনাম comes from the বিবরণ a friend of mine gave when we were stuck in the middle of nowhere at midnight and I found it sort of beautiful.
Enjoy (I hope) :)
Weighted air and winking stars,
darkness draped, tension wrought.
This night, this hour, is ours.
Silence chimes unspoken thoughts
that choke my mouth.
Silver moonbeams in glittering outline
surround you, and in our youth
this night, this hour, we intertwine.
I'd প্রণয় to hear what আপনি like অথবা hate.
Thanks for reading.
DietCokeGirl