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My crush is sending me mixed signals?
I apologize if this gets a little hard to follow অথবা very long. Anyway, I have a major crush on a boy I work with. I am 19 and he is 21. I was never attracted to him to begin with, but now I just can’t stop thinking about him. I get intense butterflies, I can’t sleep, I can’t eat and it’s driving me nuts.
The reason I feel that this crush in particular is so intense is because I think he may like me too. The issue is, my crush is sending me so many mixed signals and I am extremely confused. Here are some scenarios to explain:
The only other person at work who knows is my friend Beth. When we were discussing it, I informed Beth that I don’t think anything will happen. She asked why and I explained that one দিন him and I were talking about an argument Beth had with her boyfriend at প্রথমপাতা and he said, “this is why I don’t want a relationship. Hooking up is so much easier because once it’s done it’s done, no আরো drama.” Beth told me “Really? Because he told me that he really wanted a girlfriend because he missed having someone to travel with অথবা have দ্বারা his side.” (Mind you, Beth is much older than us and has been with her boyfriend for fifteen years, so he told her this as confiding in a friend, not flirtatious.)
Then, the দিন I told Beth I had a crush on him, I told her at work. I tried to keep it secretive, because I knew he was working too. While we were discussing it, he kept walking into the area where we were suspiciously. When we were done, Beth went to the back and he confronted her, asking her “What were আপনি guys talking about?” Beth, trying to play it off sarcastically, ব্যক্ত “Well, she’s thinking of আপনি as a possible option for her crush.” He then replied, “Okay, well I’ll stay hopeful.”
Later on, Beth ended up staying a little after her shift to eat some food, and so did my crush, so they ended up eating together. I had written my number on a napkin for Beth so she could call me later when I got off of work to discu
The reason I feel that this crush in particular is so intense is because I think he may like me too. The issue is, my crush is sending me so many mixed signals and I am extremely confused. Here are some scenarios to explain:
The only other person at work who knows is my friend Beth. When we were discussing it, I informed Beth that I don’t think anything will happen. She asked why and I explained that one দিন him and I were talking about an argument Beth had with her boyfriend at প্রথমপাতা and he said, “this is why I don’t want a relationship. Hooking up is so much easier because once it’s done it’s done, no আরো drama.” Beth told me “Really? Because he told me that he really wanted a girlfriend because he missed having someone to travel with অথবা have দ্বারা his side.” (Mind you, Beth is much older than us and has been with her boyfriend for fifteen years, so he told her this as confiding in a friend, not flirtatious.)
Then, the দিন I told Beth I had a crush on him, I told her at work. I tried to keep it secretive, because I knew he was working too. While we were discussing it, he kept walking into the area where we were suspiciously. When we were done, Beth went to the back and he confronted her, asking her “What were আপনি guys talking about?” Beth, trying to play it off sarcastically, ব্যক্ত “Well, she’s thinking of আপনি as a possible option for her crush.” He then replied, “Okay, well I’ll stay hopeful.”
Later on, Beth ended up staying a little after her shift to eat some food, and so did my crush, so they ended up eating together. I had written my number on a napkin for Beth so she could call me later when I got off of work to discu
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