Usually I post a link in a related spot. For example, one of my পছন্দ baseball players is Blake DeWitt and I wanted to make a spot for him. After I did I পোষ্ট হয়েছে লিঙ্ক to it in the baseball spot and the spot for the team he plays on.
Just don't spam - that's the easiest way to get people to NOT যোগদান your spot (aside from making a really pointless spot that already has similar "sibling spots" - example, someone recently made a spot for House's CURRENT team when there is already a spot titled "House's Team")
Well, there shouldn't be any annoyingness going on and about, আপনি want people to যোগদান your club, right? Then do it! :) No ones stopping you! No ones hurting you! It's truly is simple. But don't forget, when আপনি want someone to যোগদান your club, act like আপনি mean. If so, write something on their page. Something that may inspire them to যোগদান your club! >Hope this helped. :/ hang in there. :)