I am sure lot of আপনি won't agree with me but anyway this is my opinion. This riot going on that HP is better than Twilight is beyond me. These বই are riveting and thrilling in their own way.
First Twilight, yes I too realise it has too much of প্রণয় and unrealistic charecteristics in people. However আপনি have to say it is great piece of imagination. We have to understand that HP plot is far bigger than that of Twilight. It is a plot where the survival of the world depends on one character whereas in Twilight it is just the fate of two তারকা crossed প্রেমী and the obstacles faced দ্বারা them. HP plot is far আরো enthralling than that of T.
The events in HP are wrtitten in a exemplary way. In Twilight they just seem to drag. However when it comes to the interactions and situations explained দ্বারা Bella it does in a way relate to our thought process.
In HP the characters grow in the বই which makes আপনি feel like আপনি knoe them but in T no such thing exists but আপনি must say the human characters can reflect reality in a different level. The vampire and the wizards, from small days we were taught that they don't exist. In T there is a element of darkness weaved into the প্রণয় which on a subconcious level we might not like however this is no reson to hate it. It Stephenie Meyer's potrayal of ভ্যাম্পায়ার as it differs from others. Like wizards are admiring J.K Rowlings potrayal of wizards.
The bottom line is that both বই have their upsides and downsides. We are not critising the বই but the author. This is their imaginations. Some think HP characters are better because that is how JKR wanted it and it differs to SM characters. Nobody thinks অথবা imagines the same.
Another factor is that people have different preferences. Some may like অতিপ্রাকৃতিক and romance and others mystery, thrill and adventure. So it might not be the বই at all but rather আপনি don't agree with another person's preferences.