Can anyone help me get over the loss of my uncle? He was arresting someone and A GOOD 4 NOTHING TRAIN HIT HIM!!!!

First of all, I'm so sorry for আপনি loss. My deepest condolences for আপনি and your family.

Losing someone আপনি প্রণয় it probable the worst thing that can happen, but the good news is time will heal the pain.

Try to focus on his life, not his death. Remember him for the wonderful person he was. Talk about him with your family and friends, even if it makes আপনি cry. Crying is a natural way of dealing with your emotions and it's nothing to be ashamed off. Also, don't feel guilty if something funny happens and আপনি laugh. Talk about nice memories of your uncle when আপনি want to, but also don't be afraid to talk about something entirely else too. That's the first step to living your life without him. Once the memorial service and funeral stuff are over আপনি have to get back to your normal life. Talk about him when আপনি want to, even if his death has been a long time ago, grieving takes time. Deal with this in your way, not the way আপনি thing আপনি have to if that doesn't feel right for you.

Remember: focus on his life, not his death. Don't think of all the moment আপনি miss with him, but of all the moments আপনি shared with him.

I wish আপনি and your family all the strength tomorrow and in all the hard days to come.

If আপনি want to talk more, feel free to send me a message!

Lots of love,

Eline

I agree. I am so sorry about what happened to your uncle. I know how আপনি feel- half of my entire family is dead. But what I do is not negatively think about his death, but think positive about his life.

I'd suggest to speak on his behalf at the momorial sevice and say why আপনি loved him so much and how আপনি still do. I hope the memorial service works out and you'll remember that he is in a better place and he would probably be nothing without আপনি and your family. Good luck! ^_^

প্রণয় as always,

Emma <3

P.S. If আপনি want to talk to me about it, I would be আরো than happy!

how the hell is the internet supposed to help u with a হারিয়ে গেছে family member, no afense but dont u have any family to talk to, its like your just asking for attention অথবা somthing, im sorry for ur loss but this isnt somthing u shud really use the internet for...