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Okay so I'm 15 years old and have a major crush on one of the guys I've known since I was 10. We are really great বন্ধু but I don't know f he feels the same way back. I'm not looking for a serious relationship অথবা anything but I'm debating about weather অথবা not I should ask him out. Alot of my বন্ধু have told me that I should wait for him to ask me out because he is the guy but I think that maybe that's to old fashioned and sexist. On the other hand I'm afraid that if I do ask and he doesn't feel the same way it could wreck a truly amazing friendship. I've had a crush on him since we were 12 and I just can't contain it all inside of me any আরো but I don't know if it's worth risking our friendship. Please help me আপনি guys! I feel like I've turned everywhere else with no success. If আপনি give me ligitamet উপদেশ I will give আপনি props! :) lol
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Me_Iz_Here said:
(Thinks about the amazingly similar situation I'm in)

Tell him আপনি like him first. If he's okay with it, then ask him out. It shouldn't ruin your friendship if he's a really good friend. Just do whatever আপনি think আপনি should do.
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A lot better than my very long answer... lol.
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Thnx, I think that's probably what I should do and I think I know that somewhere inside of me but it still is hard to do.
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Good luck with your situation!
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jayem801 said:
If uu really like himm... like a lot, well i think uu should just come clean ,just tell him how uu feel , .... tell him that if uu guys can be আরো then বন্ধু beacause if uu just keep it all inside it's going to kill uu আরো trust mee' i was in this problem too... if he doseen't, at least uu had the guts to tell him... && be pround of yurr self (: if he dosen't feel the same way ?... Then just be বন্ধু but don't let that get in the way... There lots of guys out there "a lot" maybe there sum one like him but a little better... and maybe he is just waiting on a perfect girl like আপনি <3
i hoped i kinda helped c:
♥- Kamie
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It did sort of! It was very motivational:)
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Sandfire_Paiger said:
Well, I'm not very experienced with boys, considering I'm 12.

You've known him for five years. Well, its just me but, I think আপনি would probably know him well enough to at least predict his reaction. Take that into account. And if it seems like it would go well, ask him out. Who cares if its 'traditional' for a guy to ask out the girl? And if আপনি have no idea how he'll react, then I would still think about it carfully and most likely ask him out. If he says no, and things are awkward, just do things like আপনি regularly do, and try and get things back to normal. Thats the best উপদেশ I can give! Hope it works out well!


দ্বারা the way, আপনি might get better উত্তর here:

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Being as like আপনি ব্যক্ত আপনি don't have a ton of experience with boys, that was a very good answer :) it's just hard because the way he is he is never really open about any type of serious emotion and I get nervous sometimes talking with him about it.
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creepyboy7 said:
follow your dear heart! that is the dearest উপদেশ i can give আপনি at this dear moment!
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Lol, thnx
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Animetama said:
If আপনি don't wanna ask him out, then look for signs that tell আপনি whether অথবা not he likes আপনি অথবা not. Like if he talks to আপনি alot অথবা leans foward whenever আপনি guys talk. Im sure it'll all work out in the end. Try flirting yourself too, if he responds, then I'm sure he likes আপনি on some level.
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Thnx :) but I'm a terrible flirt! হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ
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lolz then practice >:P however he flirts with আপনি (if he does) flirt the same way!
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