What does it mean to be spoiled, exactly?

Yeah. There's a difference between being a spoiled brat and being just plain spoiled.

... copied off dictionary.com ....

spoil   [spoil] প্রদর্শনী IPA verb, spoiled অথবা spoilt, spoil·ing, noun
verb (used with object)
1.
to damage severely অথবা harm (something), especially with reference to its excellence, value, usefulness, etc.: The water stain spoiled the painting. Drought spoiled the ভূট্টা crop.
2.
to diminish অথবা impair the quality of; affect detrimentally: Bad weather spoiled their vacation.
3.
to impair, damage, অথবা harm the character অথবা nature of (someone) দ্বারা unwise treatment, excessive indulgence, etc.: to spoil a child দ্বারা pampering him.
4.
Archaic . to strip (persons, places, etc.) of goods, valuables, etc.; plunder; pillage; despoil.
5.
Archaic . to take অথবা seize দ্বারা force.

Your not spoiled in my opinion.

Being spoiled means that আপনি just have to get everything আপনি want,no matter what the reason. Throwing tantrums when আপনি don't get what আপনি like.Begging like your about to die for things that আপনি don't really need.

^Well that's my definition of it anyways.

Duh,it means to get every thing আপনি want,so when আপনি ask for it আপনি get it!!!!!!!!basiclly thats what it means.