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Sorry to bother আপনি but I really need to get this off my chest (literally). So I know every girls dream is to have big boobs but for me it's the opposite. I'm 14 and I am a size 10DD, I have the biggest boobs in my whole বছর and I hate it. They really annoy me especially during P.E. I'm really insecure about them and I find that men that are way older than me and boys my age are always staring at my chest and I absolutely hate it, it makes me feel really self-conscious. I have heard of people wrapping material around them to sort of squash them but I don't know. Help please :(
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I NEVER WANT BIG CHESTS DX
prussiaducky posted বছরখানেক আগে
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^ don't be an asshole man, it's not gross it's just natural. you're making her feel worse.
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Thank আপনি so much for all your help guys, it means a lot to me, this goes to everyone who answered
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Makeupdiva said:
I get insecurities. I get insecure about myself as well. There isn't much আপনি can do about it except get a breast reduction but I don't recommend আপনি get one cause of your age and the fact that it will empty your parents account. The only think I guess আপনি could do if there are men staring at আপনি is to ignore it, if it makes আপনি feel really uncomfortable, walk away find your বন্ধু and stay with them until আপনি have to go home. I get stared at all the time, but I generally ignore it অথবা at least try too. I've never heard of any material that আপনি could মোড়ানো around your chest with. Just be healthy and exercise regularly. Don't your breast size get আপনি down, as I ব্যক্ত not much আপনি could do. But if it still bothers আপনি than go speak to your doctor about it, maybe he অথবা she could give আপনি some tips on what to do, don't stress yourself over it.
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AlOoOosh said:
I guess আপনি must a doctor and he absolutely is going to help আপনি with it :)
There are medications for that ..
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ssook78 said:
oh uh i dont want big boobs but wear a big big big t-shirt at p.e অথবা if আপনি have a uniform thing ask the teacher for a very very big t-shirt
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jester616 said:
What you've heard of is girls using first aid wraps, like you'd use for a sprained ankle, to bind down their breasts, and I've heard it's very uncomfortable. Have আপনি tried wearing a sports bra? Those tend to provide the most support and minimize the size.

Because of your age, a doctor is unlikely to perform surgery, but if there is stress on your back, which is likely, and your family has insurance, surgery would be covered in that circumstance as it's not done for only cosmetic purposes.

As for men and boys staring, they will do that, regardless of how young আপনি actually are. I know it's hard to ignore, but I think the উপদেশ to stick with your friends, if possible, is the best for now. আপনি will gain আরো confidence as আপনি get older. Sorry that this is not much help for now.
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XxTheBeatlesxX said:
Well people out and out tell me that I have a big butt and I just ignore them even though it kinda bothers me. I just put up with it. I'm not gonna do anything about it. But breasts are a whole different thing kinda. Yeah it makes আপনি uncomfortable when they stare, I get that. I don't think আপনি should worry about it unless it's causing আপনি physical pain (like back pain অথবা something). Otherwise, just tough it out I guess. I'll support you!
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hetalianstella said:
Have আপনি tried wearing a sports bra? It will flatten them out and make them appear smaller.
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prussiaducky said:
lose weight, I'm serious .___. 14 বছর olds don't naturally get a big chest >.> no offense, but it isn't healthy to have all of that extra weight. Lose weight....and you're bust will get smaller. Tell me your height and weight (yet again, I'm not trying to be mean)
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... I had that chest size naturally when I was 14 and I'm underweight... .___.; *le just throwing that sorta thing out there*
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Book-Freak said:
What countries bra size system is that? Can আপনি possibly convert it to UK system, because I have no idea how big 10DD is in UK sizes.

As for আপনি thinking their too big... Wear Sports Bras instead of wrapping them down as it's আরো comfortable and looks better I think. Also, I don't mean to be rude, but are আপনি slightly overweight? Because weight can effect bra size.
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kakalover said:
I feel আপনি girl. I'm 5'3" and I'm a 38DD It's hard, and I totally get your insecurity. It can be rough. I always used to be so self-conscious because I could feel the stares of all the guys that go to my school. But আপনি know what? I had to learn to accept it. God doesn't make mistakes. I used to cry myself to sleep because I felt so horrible, and I had back pains and shit. But আপনি know, there's always doctors that can help আপনি out m'dear.

--GiGi Ingenario
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KohakuJSMA said:
no, it is not EVERY GIRLS DREAM. i don't like it, either...

(random XD!)
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 no, it is not EVERY GIRLS DREAM. i don't like it, either... (random XD!)
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shadowlover3000 said:
At least yours aren't 36A.
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EXACTLY
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I'd prefer for them to be small because I do a lot of horse riding and small boobs would be much আরো convenient.
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True, I sneak through fences and tight spaces, so it helps xD
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laura199627 said:
Don´t be insecure. I mean many girls would like to have your boobs size (like আপনি said) and others no. আপনি can´t change your body. And, almost every boy stares at every girl´s boobs.
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CielXlizzy19 said:
Yeah, same with me.

Though, I'm at that age where most girls my age are flat-chested, so walking around with a REAL chest (32C), even teachers stare at me.....

....I just don't like it. .____.
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8theGreat said:
I understand your situation perfectly.
I know that it's tough, but আপনি have to learn to accept that about you. I don't really like my boobs either, and I'm roughly the same size as you.

আপনি absolutely do not want to squish your boobs down with anything. That is extremely damaging and is a whole heck of a lot আরো painful than it's worth. I did it once, and it felt like I was dying. Seriously.

Just learn to accept and প্রণয় it as part of who আপনি are. That's all আপনি can do, really.
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