The main problem that guys face when trying to চুম্বন a girl is knowing if they are ready to চুম্বন them. Get the timing wrong, and things will turn really awkward. Get it right, and well... আপনি will know. Here's how আপনি can increase your odds. But, if আপনি know they are ready then things will go well
1)Make her comfortable দ্বারা making a joke, and don't laugh too loudly at your own jokes অথবা আপনি will look like a tool and might turn her off, girls don't always respond sexually to confidence, but an outgoing girl will - humor is an attractive quality. For instance, it's probably a good time to চুম্বন that girl when you're watching a movie where the mad moments are happening. It'll ease the tension and you'll be able to laugh it off after, but only if she likes the movie.
2) Use a nice, romantic spot. Girls will think it's amazingly romantic when the first চুম্বন is at sunset, an empty grassy meadow under the stars, a deck on a lake at night, on the beach, on a paddle নৌকা at a বন্ধু pond at night, অথবা a private camp fire. Usually early dawn অথবা midnight scenes can be considered lovely. But আপনি don't have to. Just make sure আপনি are sincere in what আপনি are doing.
3) Be bold. Go for it! Lean in for the kiss. Lean in slowly!! Don't be too fast about it. While আপনি get closer, slowly close your eyes and stop leaning about half an inch away from your girl's lips. If she's ready, she'll lean in and চুম্বন you! Try a peck for your first kiss, then সরানো on to longer, আরো passionate kisses when you're ready for it. Say sweet things in between kisses, it also allows আপনি time to breathe.
4) Use the other hand to stroke her hair অথবা neck. But leave your hand on the back of her neck অথবা hold her in place, girls may feel loved and cared for and like it. For them, it tingles a bit and makes them feel warm inside.
5) Find what আপনি were talking about before and keep going if you're not স্নেহ চুম্বন her anymore. Don't act strange, she might get the wrong impression. She remembers আপনি how আপনি were before the kiss, and আপনি want that not to change too much.
6) Remain just a little touchy-feely after the kiss. আপনি don't want to leave her not wanting more, অথবা she might think আপনি dislike her অথবা even want to break up. Stroke her back, her cheek, the back of her neck. Comb through her hair a bit.
7) Girls do a lot of talking about the first kiss. Where will it be? What kind of চুম্বন will it be? If আপনি are young, and the girl is hyper, then আপনি don't want to disappoint her with just a চুম্বন on the cheek. চুম্বন her on the lips. Draw back, smile at her. If she is responding positively, then go in again, this time using the mouth, opening the lips, and maybe adding some tongue action. Make sure the first চুম্বন is in a special place - never in the চলচ্চিত্র (this may depend on the person). On a hill, on the stage in a deserted theatre, দ্বারা a ফোয়ারা in a secluded park.
8) If she doesn't talk about the first চুম্বন a ton, she might be waiting for the right time. Most guys never know the right time, so here's the hints:
She will lean towards you, maybe even lay her head on your shoulder.
She won't pull away when আপনি hold her hand.
She'll smile when আপনি say her name in a loving and compasionate tone.
She'll ask to meet আপনি places.
She might seem a bit clingy at times.
She won't make আপনি go away when she's upset with you. If anything, she'll want to hear আপনি say "I প্রণয় you," অথবা "I'm so sorry," অথবা "Can আপনি forgive me?"
She will start conversations, make a joke, do things that guys do but like a girl.
9) Don't be afraid to catch it. Sometimes, আপনি just never know when it's the right time. Girls can be very closed at times, so she may not be giving আপনি all the warning signs that she wants to be kissed. Sometimes, signals that usually mean she isn't open to physical contact (such as crossed arms, looking away, etc.) may mean that she is just nervous (especially if she's never kissed a guy, অথবা maybe not kissed many guys, so she is inexperienced) and isn't sure what to do, অথবা how to make the first move. If this is what she is doing, আপনি will simply have to rely on your instincts. If she is doing any of the following, then আপনি will simply have to use your male instincts, and be the hunter. If she is doing any of the signs below, then go in for the kill!
Glancing at you, and quickly looking away when আপনি see her
Blushing when আপনি talk to her
If she is biting her lip
10) If this this doesn't work, and she seems surprised অথবা embarrased that আপনি kissed her (in an uncomfortable way) then don't freak out. Everyone messes up, and it's not the end of the world if this one girl doesn't like you. It gave আপনি some experience on dealing with shy girls. আপনি shouldn't feel bad, অথবা ashamed of yourself for স্নেহ চুম্বন her. Instead, feel proud that আপনি braved up to a shy girl and tried your best! There's always আরো মাছ in the sea. If she is unusally mean অথবা rude and rants on to all of her বন্ধু about how আপনি "kissed her" and laughs as আপনি walk by, look her straight in the eye, roll your eyes and say "Grow up". আপনি don't want to be with someone like that anyway. In 9 out of 10 cases however, she will simply সরানো on. She may like it (if she was nervous) and আপনি can ask her out again on another night! Good luck!
1)Make her comfortable দ্বারা making a joke, and don't laugh too loudly at your own jokes অথবা আপনি will look like a tool and might turn her off, girls don't always respond sexually to confidence, but an outgoing girl will - humor is an attractive quality. For instance, it's probably a good time to চুম্বন that girl when you're watching a movie where the mad moments are happening. It'll ease the tension and you'll be able to laugh it off after, but only if she likes the movie.
2) Use a nice, romantic spot. Girls will think it's amazingly romantic when the first চুম্বন is at sunset, an empty grassy meadow under the stars, a deck on a lake at night, on the beach, on a paddle নৌকা at a বন্ধু pond at night, অথবা a private camp fire. Usually early dawn অথবা midnight scenes can be considered lovely. But আপনি don't have to. Just make sure আপনি are sincere in what আপনি are doing.
3) Be bold. Go for it! Lean in for the kiss. Lean in slowly!! Don't be too fast about it. While আপনি get closer, slowly close your eyes and stop leaning about half an inch away from your girl's lips. If she's ready, she'll lean in and চুম্বন you! Try a peck for your first kiss, then সরানো on to longer, আরো passionate kisses when you're ready for it. Say sweet things in between kisses, it also allows আপনি time to breathe.
4) Use the other hand to stroke her hair অথবা neck. But leave your hand on the back of her neck অথবা hold her in place, girls may feel loved and cared for and like it. For them, it tingles a bit and makes them feel warm inside.
5) Find what আপনি were talking about before and keep going if you're not স্নেহ চুম্বন her anymore. Don't act strange, she might get the wrong impression. She remembers আপনি how আপনি were before the kiss, and আপনি want that not to change too much.
6) Remain just a little touchy-feely after the kiss. আপনি don't want to leave her not wanting more, অথবা she might think আপনি dislike her অথবা even want to break up. Stroke her back, her cheek, the back of her neck. Comb through her hair a bit.
7) Girls do a lot of talking about the first kiss. Where will it be? What kind of চুম্বন will it be? If আপনি are young, and the girl is hyper, then আপনি don't want to disappoint her with just a চুম্বন on the cheek. চুম্বন her on the lips. Draw back, smile at her. If she is responding positively, then go in again, this time using the mouth, opening the lips, and maybe adding some tongue action. Make sure the first চুম্বন is in a special place - never in the চলচ্চিত্র (this may depend on the person). On a hill, on the stage in a deserted theatre, দ্বারা a ফোয়ারা in a secluded park.
8) If she doesn't talk about the first চুম্বন a ton, she might be waiting for the right time. Most guys never know the right time, so here's the hints:
She will lean towards you, maybe even lay her head on your shoulder.
She won't pull away when আপনি hold her hand.
She'll smile when আপনি say her name in a loving and compasionate tone.
She'll ask to meet আপনি places.
She might seem a bit clingy at times.
She won't make আপনি go away when she's upset with you. If anything, she'll want to hear আপনি say "I প্রণয় you," অথবা "I'm so sorry," অথবা "Can আপনি forgive me?"
She will start conversations, make a joke, do things that guys do but like a girl.
9) Don't be afraid to catch it. Sometimes, আপনি just never know when it's the right time. Girls can be very closed at times, so she may not be giving আপনি all the warning signs that she wants to be kissed. Sometimes, signals that usually mean she isn't open to physical contact (such as crossed arms, looking away, etc.) may mean that she is just nervous (especially if she's never kissed a guy, অথবা maybe not kissed many guys, so she is inexperienced) and isn't sure what to do, অথবা how to make the first move. If this is what she is doing, আপনি will simply have to rely on your instincts. If she is doing any of the following, then আপনি will simply have to use your male instincts, and be the hunter. If she is doing any of the signs below, then go in for the kill!
Glancing at you, and quickly looking away when আপনি see her
Blushing when আপনি talk to her
If she is biting her lip
10) If this this doesn't work, and she seems surprised অথবা embarrased that আপনি kissed her (in an uncomfortable way) then don't freak out. Everyone messes up, and it's not the end of the world if this one girl doesn't like you. It gave আপনি some experience on dealing with shy girls. আপনি shouldn't feel bad, অথবা ashamed of yourself for স্নেহ চুম্বন her. Instead, feel proud that আপনি braved up to a shy girl and tried your best! There's always আরো মাছ in the sea. If she is unusally mean অথবা rude and rants on to all of her বন্ধু about how আপনি "kissed her" and laughs as আপনি walk by, look her straight in the eye, roll your eyes and say "Grow up". আপনি don't want to be with someone like that anyway. In 9 out of 10 cases however, she will simply সরানো on. She may like it (if she was nervous) and আপনি can ask her out again on another night! Good luck!
