I've noticed that there are a lot of প্রশ্ন pertaining to the subject of popularity, well-known users, and admiration on this club... Some people find it harmless. Others don't care. But a lot of people do and this প্রবন্ধ is for those who feel like they're not important. আপনি know who আপনি are.
All I have to say is... আপনি are just as important as everyone else on this club. The person with 1 অনুরাগী is just as important as the person with 1,789 fans. They're just numbers. A lot of আপনি need to realize that ফ্যানপপ is just a website on the Internet. Popularlity on a social network should be beneath your notice.
The reason there seems to be "well-known" users on this club is because people have made it so.
দ্বারা posting প্রশ্ন and ফোরাম and প্রবন্ধ about "well-known users," আপনি are making everyone believe that there is a জনপ্রিয় group when there really isn't.
These people are just admired for the things they say and their courage to stand out and be themselves.
These প্রশ্ন about "popular" people only make others feel bad about themselves when they're not mentioned.
Thoughts like, "Wow, maybe I'm not good enough..." অথবা "I wish I could be as জনপ্রিয় as that person," rush through people's minds and that's when jealousy and subjective behavior takes place.
Subjective behavior harvests bad feelings toward other users, and then that grows into envy.
আপনি should be happy with who আপনি are. That's all আপনি need. And don't say, "But there's nothing good about me," because there is. You're just being too stubborn to see it.
আপনি need to understand that you're not here on যেভাবে খুশী to impress anyone. আপনি are who আপনি are. There is nobody on this earth like you. আপনি are different. আপনি are special.
আপনি have just as much potential as the পরবর্তি person on this club. Don't argue otherwise.
Everyone here should be valued. Everyone here has their own story to tell. Be happy with who আপনি are and you'll be content in all the things that আপনি do. Don't do anything that you'd regret.
Treat others the way you'd want to be treated. Be kind to people on this club, and they'll be kind to you. If they're not kind, you can still be kind.
The truth of the matter is that if আপনি be yourself, people will admire আপনি for that. People like it when আপনি be yourself.
Confidence is something that people value. Don't ask yourself, "Why am I not as cool as that person? Why am I so lame? Why won't anyone admire me?" Ask yourself, "What can I do to make myself a better person today? Whose দিন can I brighten? How can I প্রদর্শনী who I really am to everybody today?"
আপনি should strain to make yourself better with every passing day. Be strong. Be happy with your strengths and your weaknesses. Sometimes you're wrong and sometimes you're right about certain things. Accept your weaknesses and grow from that. You'll see the difference.
If আপনি have the courage to make a difference and be yourself then it doesn't MATTER if people admire আপনি অথবা not. All that matters is what আপনি think of yourself. আপনি are আরো important than আপনি deem yourself to be. Stop trying to compare yourself to someone who is completely unlike you.
Everyone makes mistakes. We are all human. Even the most perfect person with the most "perfect life" has felt the wrath of sadness and jealousy and imperfection. Let's build each other up instead of breaking each other down.
It's fine to admire people. But let's try not to bias anyone... It's impossible to compare two people because we are all so intricate in our own way.
Don't strive to be better than your contemporaries অথবা predecessors. Strive to be better than yourself.
This is an opinion article. This is my opinion. I appreciate all of your opinions, too, but please respect mine in return. That's all I ask... And that's all I have to say. Thank আপনি for reading.
