1. Cognitive Dissonance - the idea that when we hold two conflicting thoughts অথবা beliefs, we unconsciously adjust to make one fit with the other. My social psychology professor gave an example of a student who values studying all the time, but পায়জামা off when it comes to their পছন্দ টেলিভিশন show. So the student tells herself that watching the টেলিভিশন helps her study later when it really doesn’t. However, telling herself that helped her eased the anxiety.
2. Hallucinations are common - one third of people প্রতিবেদন experiencing hallucination at some point in time. Similarly, normal people often have paranoid thoughts. So when was the last time আপনি hallucinated?
3. The Placebo effect - this is when আপনি think that something like a drug has an effect on আপনি when really it doesn’t. It’s your thoughts that actually resulted in আপনি getting better.
4. Obedience to Authority -authorities অথবা people in power can really control our behaviors. In Stanley Milgram’s famous study, 63% of participants kept giving electric shock to another human being just because someone in authority was telling them to.
5. Choice Blindness - we are not very good at making choices and understanding why we made those choice. When we make a decision, even if the decision is not good, we tend to rationalize why decision is the best.
6. Fantasies reduce motivation - thinking that we’ve already succeeded can reduce our motivation. We might think that thinking about success makes us want it more, but it actually backfires.
7. Brainstorming doesn’t work - thinking in groups actually reduces the power of brainstorming because in group people are আরো lazy and worry আরো about what other people think. It’s better to think alone when it comes to generating ideas.
8. Don’t suppress - holding back your thoughts actually makes আপনি think about it more. It’s like আপনি try as hard as আপনি can not to think about পরাকাষ্ঠা elephants in the room, but the আরো আপনি try, the আরো likely the elephants doesn’t go away.
9. We can train to Multitask - Generally, multitasking reduces efficiency because we have to allocate different cognitive resources to different tasks, but studies প্রদর্শনী that আপনি can learn to multitask. আপনি just have to train.
10. It’s the little things that matter - we think that it is the big events in our life that changes us, but it’s actually the little things adding up that makes us who we are.
2. Hallucinations are common - one third of people প্রতিবেদন experiencing hallucination at some point in time. Similarly, normal people often have paranoid thoughts. So when was the last time আপনি hallucinated?
3. The Placebo effect - this is when আপনি think that something like a drug has an effect on আপনি when really it doesn’t. It’s your thoughts that actually resulted in আপনি getting better.
4. Obedience to Authority -authorities অথবা people in power can really control our behaviors. In Stanley Milgram’s famous study, 63% of participants kept giving electric shock to another human being just because someone in authority was telling them to.
5. Choice Blindness - we are not very good at making choices and understanding why we made those choice. When we make a decision, even if the decision is not good, we tend to rationalize why decision is the best.
6. Fantasies reduce motivation - thinking that we’ve already succeeded can reduce our motivation. We might think that thinking about success makes us want it more, but it actually backfires.
7. Brainstorming doesn’t work - thinking in groups actually reduces the power of brainstorming because in group people are আরো lazy and worry আরো about what other people think. It’s better to think alone when it comes to generating ideas.
8. Don’t suppress - holding back your thoughts actually makes আপনি think about it more. It’s like আপনি try as hard as আপনি can not to think about পরাকাষ্ঠা elephants in the room, but the আরো আপনি try, the আরো likely the elephants doesn’t go away.
9. We can train to Multitask - Generally, multitasking reduces efficiency because we have to allocate different cognitive resources to different tasks, but studies প্রদর্শনী that আপনি can learn to multitask. আপনি just have to train.
10. It’s the little things that matter - we think that it is the big events in our life that changes us, but it’s actually the little things adding up that makes us who we are.
Made by: ICEhanica (this is how the main character looks like =D)
1.Always be fresh and beautiful 2.Apply make-up but not too much(coz u will look like a white lady!scary!) 3.Have a pleasing smile when he looks at u 4.Dont loose confidence when u see him.dont get nervous,say a simple"hi"who knows,maybe he'll reply u with a hello that u'd longed to hear 5.Show him ur good side! 6.Show him ur secret talents. 7.Wear dresses appropriate to his taste 8.Dont be so noisy when ur with him(guys dont like noisy girls 9.Always do things that u know he will like 10 IDK^-^just do anything,i dont know what 2 write with no.ten.
