Ok..i know some of us অথবা most of us say NO then we feel guilty 4 sayin' it..well that happens..well her some উপদেশ 4 saying No w/felling guilty:
*Are আপনি chronically overcommitted? Rushing from one task to another,
with no time for yourself? The key is to have a strong vision of what
আপনি want to say yes to. Then you'll feel far আরো confident saying no.
1-Decide which activities আপনি truly love. If আপনি stay focused on those things, then the পরবর্তি time আপনি are asked to volunteer অথবা get involved in a time-consuming activity, just check in. If the request takes আপনি too far from what আপনি are already dedicating yourself to, it's easier to say no.
2-Get over the need to be nice. Stop being afraid to disappoint people, and let go of the sense of importance আপনি get from being indispensable.
3-Be clear when আপনি say no. Ambiguities like "Maybe after the first of the year" অথবা "Let me get back to you" leave the other person thinking you're actually interested, when you're not.
4-Practice saying no in nonthreatening situations, when আপনি have little at stake and success is almost assured. Then you'll work up to resigning from the board of directors and stop signing up for committee work. Learn that carving out time for yourself and your family requires no reason and no apology.
5-Say no to requests for money in simple language and give no explanation. Contribute to the causes that excite আপনি and complement your values. Then you'll feel confident saying, "My contributions have already been allocated this year."
*Are আপনি chronically overcommitted? Rushing from one task to another,
with no time for yourself? The key is to have a strong vision of what
আপনি want to say yes to. Then you'll feel far আরো confident saying no.
1-Decide which activities আপনি truly love. If আপনি stay focused on those things, then the পরবর্তি time আপনি are asked to volunteer অথবা get involved in a time-consuming activity, just check in. If the request takes আপনি too far from what আপনি are already dedicating yourself to, it's easier to say no.
2-Get over the need to be nice. Stop being afraid to disappoint people, and let go of the sense of importance আপনি get from being indispensable.
3-Be clear when আপনি say no. Ambiguities like "Maybe after the first of the year" অথবা "Let me get back to you" leave the other person thinking you're actually interested, when you're not.
4-Practice saying no in nonthreatening situations, when আপনি have little at stake and success is almost assured. Then you'll work up to resigning from the board of directors and stop signing up for committee work. Learn that carving out time for yourself and your family requires no reason and no apology.
5-Say no to requests for money in simple language and give no explanation. Contribute to the causes that excite আপনি and complement your values. Then you'll feel confident saying, "My contributions have already been allocated this year."
