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Am I a slut?

Well, I have insomnia so whenever I meet a hot guy I have plenty of extra time to work up fantasies about him. But I noticed, I'll do this for, like, 2 guys a week. (Especially while I was in Florida). I'm still a virgin and all but there were a few guys who I just ব্যক্ত "I'd like to f*ck him".

I'm 14. Is this natural.
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Im also 14, and i DO have fantasies about lots of men. much older then i but i am a virgin aswell and as long as আপনি don't get yourself into any trouble keep on fantasising its just your bodys way of saying...well....your horny. but its just a phase we all go though.
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LadyLilith said:
I agree with CornChips. If you're a virgin, আপনি may just be suffering from your pent up sexual desires. আপনি are being a little harsh on yourself; I don't think you're a slut at all. You're not actually even going out and doing anything with all of these guys, so I don't see how it could constitute আপনি being a slut.

Do আপনি happen to have a sex toy? Like I said, আপনি may just be extremely horny. XD A toy should help get rid of that, অথবা at least calm আপনি down. I'd rather আপনি use a toy than go out and lose your virginity to some dude just to relieve these feelings. I would HATE that. Try and hold on to your virginity as long as আপনি can; DEFINITELY don't throw it away for some fling. If আপনি don't have a toy, get one! XD
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I প্রণয় you. :D
LoveforSeverus posted বছরখানেক আগে
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Thanks for agreeing, so true what আপনি say. & maybe that's why I've been thinking about sex lately too; Pent up pressure I guess. It's annoying :(
CornChips posted বছরখানেক আগে
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Oh yeah, it can be unbearable sometimes. :( But thank god for toys, toys, toys!
LadyLilith posted বছরখানেক আগে
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Awww, I প্রণয় আপনি too. :3 Here's a good place to look: linkSometimes their stuff can be a little pricey, but it's well worth it. The stuff I've ordered from them comes in a couple of days, and it's in discreet packaging so someone would have to open it up to see what it was.
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sapherequeen said:
No, not at all.

What you're doing is perhaps the exact same thing millions of other girls our age are doing, even me (but for me, it's guys AND girls).

Teenagers are going through a point in their life where they're discovering sex and their sexualities, and they tend to respond to it an exciting manners. I know, this may sound totally weird. But, it's the best way I can explain it.

So along with this new...interest for sex, we begin to think about it a lot and about the opposite gender (or the same gender for some people).

So, no. You're not a slut at all.

And if আপনি were, millions of teens...including myself...would be sluts along with you. ^_^


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XD True. If she were a slut, I wouldn't want to know what I would be.
LadyLilith posted বছরখানেক আগে
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Very well put! I DEF AGREE! n dont b in a rush to lose your virginity for these feelings. its totally natural to have fantasies of all kinds, especially sex.
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lilith84 said:
I'm not really the best person to answer this, but আপনি asked me to... for me it was normal. I saw a potential fuck buddy in every guy I met when I was your age. If that made me a slut then fine. I don't have an issue with names :P But I haven't done anything till I was 17 and I'm glad for it, because it was worth waiting for :) Meanwhile, there's always masturbation, which doesn't really solve the problem, but at least keeps the sexual frustration at উপসাগর for a while :D
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I like your answer. :D Sex is nice, so...
LadyLilith posted বছরখানেক আগে
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nice ... okay, yeah, nice it is :P
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Lawli-gagger said:
I never knew that virgins were sluts. xD
I thought আপনি had to have sex with someone to be labeled a slut.

But yea, you're a pervert is all. Don't feel bad...you're not alone. ;)
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Just because আপনি have sex with someone doesn't mean you're a slut.
Vixie79 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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WELL TO ME having sex with various unknown people makes আপনি a slut. Thinking about it doesn't. My opinion...thought I'd just remind youof that small detail.
Lawli-gagger posted বছরখানেক আগে
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Okay...whatever...XD
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CornChips said:
I think you're being harsh on yourself. My guess is that আপনি think about sex a lot, which is common. :)
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Agreed. :)
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Vixie79 said:
A slut is defined as a promiscuous woman, promiscuous meaning being completely indiscriminate sexually and mixing partners without any distinction.

I agree with both above that আপনি are not even close to being a slut. The feelings আপনি have are natural.
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ilydimka said:
how does a slut act exactly?? im trying to work out if im one!
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আপনি sleep around with a number of men. Moving from one to the other on a regular basis. Pretty much not sticking to one parnter.
Vixie79 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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so wat do u call that? speak the truth plz and i don't care if u call me a slut cuz i like who i am i just want to know what i am!
ilydimka posted বছরখানেক আগে
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can someone like, answer i want to know!
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Monrose said:
Of course that's normal. আপনি have to be like me in order to deserve the nickname slut!
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do u think ur a slut? maybe u should be বন্ধু with me! :D
ilydimka posted বছরখানেক আগে
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*gives hug* there's nothing wrong with being a slut :P as long as আপনি feel good about it :P
lilith84 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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thanks
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chonny said:
if আপনি act like miley cyrus then yeah... হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ jk i dont think u r
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Win.
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Briannalq said:
this is completely normal dont worry ... ^^
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irena83 said:
That's normal,you're young and curious. And why would that make আপনি a slut? Everybody has imagination and that's nothing to be ashamed of. But,of course,our desires should be controlled দ্বারা ourselves. ;)
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