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About asexuality...

Some people say asexuality doesn't exist, that all people are sexual beings. But that doesn't seem quite right to me. As a male, I've been surrounded দ্বারা my peers, who think of sex all the time ever since we became teenagers. At one point, I thought I was gay, but I just know that's not it either. And for the record, I haven't had any sexual experiences either, not even kissing. And, having already turned 18 and all, I think it's rather strange that I still have no desire whatsoever to have sex with anyone...

I do consider some people attractive though, I just can't imagine myself ever wanting to have sex with them. There are only a few of these people as well. In my school, there's this girl, who I think is very beautiful. I don't know her, because I don't really talk to girls, yet I would like to চুম্বন her... but nothing more.

I could totally see myself being in a relationship, too, but do relationships without sex actually exist? And don't get me wrong. I don't mind being single, at least not for the time being, but I am a little confused about this whole thing. Any advice?
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I thought asexual referred to bacterial reproduction.
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CornChips said:
For me, a person can't be asexual because of its definition altogether. I think people have misused this word for when it comes to someone not having sex. For the question, can relationships exist without having sex, I believe it can. Sex doesn't make অথবা keep the relationship together. It should be আরো of a bonding thing, once you're ready to do it. I hope I worded this right.
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I'm not sure if that's what আপনি meant, but I agree, knowingly refusing to have sex - অথবা celibacy - is not asexuality. It's not about if you're having sex, but about whether আপনি really WANT to অথবা feel the need to have sex at all. I, for one, find the thought of having sex borderline repulsive, but I guess I could get used to it if I was with the right girl. And that's NOT to say I would necessarily enjoy it, of course, because the way I see it, asexual is someone who can have sex but does not really have a sex drive. I'm not completely sure about this myself, so anyone with better knowledge can obviously correct me if I'm wrong :)
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Yeah, I agree. I'm glad I'm not alone on the thought of engaging in sexual activities gross, but like আপনি ব্যক্ত if I find the right guy for me, I'll have a change of heart. It's all about the right level of comfort when আপনি feel you're ready & not feel uneasy. Correct me if I'm wrong as well :)
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SouthParkSmart said:
I absolutely believe that asexuals exist. Have আপনি checked out AVEN (asexuality.org)? It can answer a lot of your questions. আপনি can also যোগদান the Asexuality অনুরাগী Club on this site!
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