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So, I want to wait until marraige...

I'm happy with my decision, for the most part. But I was just wondering, if I do wait,

does that mean I can't live with my partner?

Do I have to get married early in the relationship because it will be the only 'next level' option?

Are there any other non-christians making this choice?

Are there any people who would be willing to wait just because their partner chooses to? How much am I narrowing my options দ্বারা choosing this?
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Vixie79 said:
My philosophy is, if it makes আপনি happy do it, if it makes আপনি uncomfortable আপনি should probably avoid it all together. If waiting is what আপনি want to do go for it. I say the same for ones that don't see marriage in there future at all. Some people see themselves getting married and others don't. It depends on you, আপনি have that choice either way.
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Unless আপনি want to try to step out of your comfort zone which isn't unhealthy to do at all. It can really broaden your horizons and open your eyes.
Vixie79 posted বছরখানেক আগে
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Thank আপনি for answering. :)
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You're welcome.
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SouthParkSmart said:
আপনি can live with your partner, আপনি just can't have sex. If আপনি think living under the same roof would be too tempting, I wouldn't try it.

Nope, আপনি can get married whenever আপনি feel আপনি are ready. This is a test of self-control. I think if আরো people waited until they were married to have sex, there would be a lot less divorce (like because of unwanted pregnancies, etc.) If আপনি have sex before you're married, আপনি may find that আপনি are just sexually attracted to the person, but আপনি actually have nothing in common. Waiting is a great way for two people to get to know one another.

I'm sure there are, but I'm a Christian who wants to wait.

You're not narrowing your options; you're just weeding out the pigs who will just want আপনি for your body and don't care about আপনি at all.
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Thanks for answering. :)
MissKnowItAll posted বছরখানেক আগে
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IMO the only reason why a couple would get a divorce because of having an unplanned pregnancy would be because one অথবা both families forced them to get married in the first place. Like my brother and sis in law. 70% of couples reported the cause of their divorces fell under these categories: Incompatibility, lack of emotional support, abuse, sexual problems (which could be having waited after marriage অথবা not) and money.
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That's interesting. That's just my opinion. I have no experience, it's just that I've been raised to believe that.
SouthParkSmart posted বছরখানেক আগে
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It's okay ♥ Everyone has their own. I was raised that way too, I just started thinking for myself I guess and started looking for answer myself.
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djsheshe said:
waiting is a good decision and no u shdnt live with u're partner as others have already said, its too tempting.

u wont hve to get married early cuz if u find yourself in that situation, u know u r only getting married for sex and if u're partner cnt agree with that then its their loss.

im christian and i'm waiting and i would wait for my partner.


any way i thnk its a good thing u're waiting. :)
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Thanks. :)
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adieee said:
No, of course আপনি can live with your partner

আপনি should only get married to the person if you're sure you're ready to get married and if আপনি really প্রণয় them

I haven't made that decision but I know there are many other non christians who have

Not sure about the last comment
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