If I had a quarter for each time someone on this club ব্যক্ত that line... “No one likes me.”, “I’m ignored.”, “I don’t fit in.”. No that really isn’t the case.

I’ve gone to the club activity of about five of the people who have ব্যক্ত this, and looked for times where they had been treated unfairly, অথবা been ignored, and usually that’s not the case. I’ve also noticed that most of the time the people who have ব্যক্ত these things are new, and/or don’t do stuff on the club often in the first place.

It takes time to find out if আপনি want to be in a group অথবা not. And just because আপনি aren’t instantly popular, it doesn’t mean people dislike you. And while I have seen quite a few of these people say this who have had run-ins with Mephilesthedark, Mephiles is not everyone. Just because one person snapped at you, it doesn’t mean the whole club is against you; it doesn’t even mean that one person is against you. I argue with people I’m বন্ধু with all the time, and they argue with each other, but that alone doesn’t, অথবা shouldn’t, make someone want to leave so quickly.

And if people ARE hating on আপনি at first, are আপনি really just going to roll over and give up? Apparently yes because I keep seeing all these spam মতামত about it so often it hurts. When I started out on this club, people HATED me, and I was told many times to just stop and leave the club, but I didn’t and now I can honestly say I’m pretty successful in this club.

Think of it like you’re running for President. Just because it gets hard, all the support, and money used to help get আপনি started is for naught if আপনি aren’t willing to stick to it.

And then there’s the people that go “I’m leaving again,” “I’m back”, “I’m leaving.” HOW ABOUT আপনি JUST DON’T SAY ANYTHING? No one is going to freak out over আপনি being gone three days, coming back for three days, leaving again for three days, then coming back AGAIN, for three days. When you’re here, they’re happy, when you’re gone, they’ll wonder probably, but if you’re back in a week’s time it’s not a big deal. If আপনি say “Sorry I can’t be on for a bit because *insert reason here*. I might be back in *insert amount here* days.” that’s completely fine, as long as আপনি don’t overdo it.

Stick around if আপনি want to stick around. Leave if আপনি want to leave. But don’t post a মতামত every time আপনি say so. And BEFORE আপনি decide to, take at least a full দিন after wanting to leave each time আপনি want to, to think up and go over if আপনি actually want to go. And if আপনি do leave, don’t মোছা anything. No matter how much আপনি might want to, অথবা how much আপনি think it doesn’t matter, I can almost guarantee that আপনি will regret it later. And other people who like what you’ve পোষ্ট হয়েছে might not want the stuff to disappear either. And above all, do NOT মোছা your account, that is unless আপনি want to re-fan ALL the clubs, and add EVERY SINGLE THING YOU’VE MADE BACK onto your notifications.


On a similar topic, I address those who vanish out of thin air, then don’t come back for quite a while. Now obviously I stand দ্বারা that making a habit of notifying people if you’re going to be gone gets really annoying when আপনি do it so often, but when আপনি just go nowhere people get worried, অথবা they get annoyed.

Now before someone gets upset, this has nothing to do with situations where আপনি can’t get onto a computer, অথবা the site, অথবা any other immediate reason that would keep আপনি away, and it doesn’t have to do with it being instantaneous and আপনি not knowing when it would happen. This is about the situations where when we find out what আপনি were doing, it turns out these people were just chilling.

~Watching youtube
~got bored
~and of course MINECRAFT

I’ll admit that আপনি don’t have to tell anyone what you’re doing, it’s your life, but it’s also common courtesy. When I find out that a person I was waiting to talk to about something, অথবা roleplay with, অথবা ফোরাম with, was gone just because they were having so much fun with Team Fortress 2, all I can think is “Well thanks for wasting my time!”

For me, I have my fun when I see that the club is slowed down, and little অথবা nothing is going on. I’ll spend about a half-hour অথবা so doing whatever, then come back to check up. If there’s still nothing happening, I’ll go back to what I was doing.

And if you’re going to be doing whatever for a long period of time, all আপনি need to do so people don’t get upset after waiting for so long, is make a মতামত অথবা প্রবন্ধ ONCE, listing the things you’re going to be doing, when আপনি plan to do them, what times they usually happen, and how much time they might take up. And if আপনি want to make sure no one’s left out, send it to a friend’s wall.

Again, আপনি don’t have to do this, and these are all just suggestions; I hope everyone understands that if someone wants to just stop out of nowhere, disappear into মাইন ক্র্যাফট for a মাস (has happened), then come back like nothing’s happened, they can do it at their leisure, but to those people, it in no way makes আপনি any less inconsiderate.


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