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Is it okay to not have a boyfriend অথবা even a crush on a boy at my age?

I'm 14 and already in high school. And I've noticed something, pretty much everyone is either crushing অথবা being crushed(HA! Justin likes Valerie XD).

Why hasn't this sort of stuff been happening to me yet?

The only thing close to that is way back in the 4th grade and a boy was all flirty to me and stuff....OH WHY DIDN'T I UNDERSTAND প্রণয় BACK THEN! WE COULD HAVE BEEN TOGETHER!!! ....wow সুপ opera much... -.-


Anyway,,,can anyone tell me why this "love" is taking way too long >-< *getting pissed*


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Vixie79 said:
Yes, it's okay not to be crushing on anyone at your age অথবা dating anyone either. There isn't any rules pertaining to when আপনি should অথবা shouldn't anyway, it's up to you. You're still young, আপনি should go out and have fun and be yourself. Don't worry about guys and don't try to be pressured into thinking your strange about not having feelings for anyone. It's not important, it will come naturally to আপনি later and if not, that's still okay too.
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Great answer. I agree.
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Heartisalone said:
You're probably just not attracted to any of the boys around you.
I think it's good not to start too much প্রণয় and romance in school and wait until your done.
আপনি can focus আরো on your work.
And plus the whole Boyfriend/Girlfriend thing in school usually doesn't last too long...
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true, true. thanks
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TotalDramaChick said:
Of course. It's absouluty okay. When I was in 5th grade i didn't like ANYBODY. My বন্ধু would say " Whats wrong with so and so loves আপনি soo much and আপনি don't like him back???" .. Now I'm your age and i'm going into my sophmore year. (that dosen't have to do with anything xD) Well maybe you're just not ready, অথবা maybe your scared people are gonna find out who আপনি like, অথবা nervous your gonna get made fun of. I don't know. Well hope this works out soon. :)
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I also agree with Heartisalone too. I think mine dosen't make any sense..
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^I like both :) thanks
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You're welcome :)
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deathroman13 said:
You're only 14 so don't worry.

I have the same and I'm almost 17.
I do hang out a lot with boys but I don't have a crush and I'm not in love.
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snapeislove said:
Well, I don't think it's normal (as the whole world thinks) but I am 17 and I don't have a crush at the moment.

If it comes, it does. Keep that in mind. :D
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sehdt said:
We all do things at different rates. I am 36 had boyfriends in the past. But not any আরো I do have friendships with boys and men and I do have a crush but I am not in love. Unless আপনি are one of those to whom it never happens but even if it is its আপনি and your life so dont worry just be you. Otherwise I am sure it will happen.
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almuno01 said:
Dont worry হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ same here but don worry u still haave your whole life to find someone
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iluvsmj said:
well ur in highschool so yeah আপনি can date.
14 idk আপনি should wait til 16
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CornChips said:
It's fine, there's no rule that says আপনি have to have a crush on someone. I wish I was like আপনি at the moment, I got a crush that I want to go away now হাঃ হাঃ হাঃ xD
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posted বছরখানেক আগে 
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Thats hard when আপনি can not get them out of your head.
sehdt posted বছরখানেক আগে
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Very true .__.
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wierdgem7 said:
It's totally fine. I'm single, and I find it can help because আপনি can discover yourself, and be independent. Stay focused on আপনি and YOUR dreams. Anyway, some of these crushes can get SERIOUSLY messed up. If আপনি like someone and they don't like আপনি back, that is sooooooooooo embarassing.
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xVanilla-Saltx said:
It's perfectly fine. I'm happily single, too - and not interested in dating right now. Sometimes, the people who আপনি can have crushes on aren't really all that desirable. At this age there will still be a lot of immature boys, and আপনি should feel proud that আপনি haven't jumped into the dating pool just because everybody else has. It makes no difference in who আপনি are, অথবা your self-worth. It's extremely normal; some people don't even start dating until after college. I wouldn't worry about it - let nature take it's course and you'll find the one who আপনি are meant to be with, opposed to forcing yourself to do what's considered 'normal' দ্বারা your peers. Enjoy the freedom of being single; there are things that আপনি won't be able to do when you're in a relationship! It's perfectly normal. Good luck.
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rkz18 said:
It's totally natural to not be attracted to boys. Most women aren't. আপনি probably won't start liking these "boys" until they turn into "men". And puberty is not over yet for you, try time learning who আপনি are. This is a wonderful time, where আপনি actually have the time to learn about yourself. Males take way to much time.
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Brittanagleefan said:
Yes. But people are always অভিনয় like it's impossible not to have a crush on anyone, it sucks.
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